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Regret Marrying For Money
I was 15 when my mom and dad kicked me out, and i had no other family so i turned to stripping and prostitution so i could get the money i needed to survive. My husband was one of my clients, he regularly came to me as i was his 'favourite' and we started dating when i found out he was a millionaire (it sounds shallow but i was desperate for money) He asked me to marry him a year after we met, and i was very reluctant at first, but he offered me the chance of a modelling career, something i have always wanted to do. i modelled for a few years, but then my husband wanted kids so he forced me to stop working. I was never attracted to him, but recently he has gained so much weight, he weighs in excess of 400 lbs, and as i am very small, it is unbearably painful having sex with him. I therefore recently started having an affair with the most amazing guy. He has next to no money, but he works very hard adn he knows how to treat a woman. I have fallen in love with him, but am too scared to leave my husband because i do not know what he will do or how her react (he has been violent before) Also, i have 3 kids so it is not realistic for me to leave him. what should i do?
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brothershamass (380)
2007-02-01 11:55:25
No it's not normal.
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vaver16 (2811)
2007-02-01 12:06:40
yeah not normal
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The_World-[Scarface]-Is_Yours! (5631)
2007-02-01 13:36:32
THEY HAVE A NAME FOR PEOPLE LIKE YOU GOLD DIGGER!!!!! ive been in this position be4 when some slappa got pregnant with my kids and claimed every bentley an mercedes i owned. and dont say im out of order this is my personal opinion, u need to get a fukin lyf u golddigger i swear if i was there i would of kicked u up ure ass crack
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crazyme (4954)
2007-02-01 14:09:28
Wow you have 3 kids with him already you should stay with him. If you don't like him to gain weight. Tell him to go exercise and loose some weights. You sound like you don't like him anymore because he gains too much weights. He gives you many things and love you. You should enjoy it and love him back instead of cheating on him
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Shaka_Zulu (3938)
2007-02-01 16:57:16
arsenic...

unhappiness can kill you. especially if its you that someone is not happy with...
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smithee (4389)
2007-02-01 18:51:50
i agree stargirl
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george_bojo_II (5543)
2007-02-01 23:59:30
SIIIIIISOPHOUS!
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crazyme (4954)
2007-02-02 09:02:32
haha george bojo asking sisophous for help....I wonder where he is too. He doesn't comment much anymore.
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Sullen_Sufferance (5680)
2007-02-04 14:54:57
prostitution at 15? god damn u deserve every bad thing coming to you. can't stand hoes there is way better things to do at 15 even if u get kicked out of your house which u prob got kicked out for spreading ur legs too many times anyways
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chiefandy (5927)
2007-03-14 01:39:15
sullem sufrence is an ideot what he doesnt understan is you had no chice at 15 you cant get a job. you didnt make bad choices rather you did what you had to. if ur husband weighs 400 pound hell die soon and youle get all of hismoney. money in da bank hell yay
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little_white_angel (6940)
2007-04-05 22:10:05
not normal. period.
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PainInTheAss (1660)
2007-04-09 21:32:45
feed him lots of greasy fatty foods and he will die faster.
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Neuroticism (9109)
2007-06-30 18:09:33
If you really must, leave the kids with their pop, disappear and move with your new bf to a different state, but this will wreck your kids, possibly cause your husband to kill them and himself or hunt you down and do the same...

Or divorce him, put a gun to his face and tell him if he even so much as fucks with you or your kids, he's a dead man.

I feel sorry for you, you should've never become a prostitute, I would die before I come to that. That life is worse than death to me.
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qwerty12 (9624)
2007-07-27 16:46:10
i have a matching picture wwith you!! its all about male control here. you bought into the agreement with that milionarie man and now---karma..or consequences. it took me a while to realize that money was controlling my life and i was playing this game with this rich guy of pleasing him and being polite to make him pay fo rthings. it felt horrible--i didnt sleep with him FORTUNATELY but there is still some energy of him in my space that is saying "YOU KNOW YOU NEED ME TO TAKE CARE OF YOU" its that whole picture and programming form your mom that says you need a rich ma to take care of you!! blow that shit up!!!
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WHYme (8965)
2007-07-27 18:40:01
Divorce him and remeber that in the divorce eveything will be 50/50. More than likely you are going to get the kids is your BF ready for a family?
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rayzave (10515)
2007-09-10 18:19:28
@: brothershamass
be true to yourself..many divorces in this country but your choice
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