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Ex Flatmate

I am a grown man. I love my wife very much.

5 years ago before we met, I shared a flat with a girl. Nothing happened between us, but I half fancied her.

When I moved out I began to think about her more and more. Now I think about her all the time and it's nto going away. I know that I only used to half-fancy her when I lived with her. I know that I love my wife much more, but I can't stop thinking about my ex flatmate. I think I love her...
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Comments (5)
METHOSjr. (83)
2005-06-17 10:30:59
X2
Men are ass-sniffing womanizing dogs. Also you are British and you bottle things up. Try loving two "problems" at a time. Tougher than you think. One girl is bad enuff.
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CHRONOSjr. (84)
2005-06-17 12:38:12
the only way to solve this problem is to kill the other girl. that way you know you can never have her. love will fade when the "problem" is removed.

~the Ninja~
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aoeuid (376)
2005-06-20 23:34:42
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. The person you think you love is not your old flatmate, she is an imaginary girl based on the good things you remember about your old flatmate. Try to remember the things that annoyed you to bring it back into perspective...
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DJ_Slone (697)
2005-08-14 22:55:52
There must be something that you fancy about this girl in paticular. If you concentrate on what that is, maybe you can find that in your wife and make your marriage stronger.
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Anonymous
2005-09-12 14:11:18
love
you have a problem with your marriage but you don't see it yet
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