okay so my friends introduced he to this guy(hes 16 im 15 no big difference). i really like him and he really likes me but he said he doesn't want a real relationship. what does he mean and why not?
If a guy says he does not want a relationship it means more than likely one of four things: Either he is not into the girl to whom he sent such a message, he has another girl in mind, he does not want to be bothered or he is gay.
More than likely he does not want to be hassled, phoned non-stop throughout the day/night and pestered hence he is being sincere. Relationships have good aspects but also bad ones. Perhaps he recently came off a not so good relationship and needs/prefers time alone.
yeah he said he had a few bad relationships. he was cheated on. how can i let him know i won't cheat on him or be clingy? btw im not at all a clingy person
You can't do much other than to try to be his friend, that's about it. I doubt he is afraid of a girl cheating on him but likely just does not want to be bothered. Relationships are work, require sacrifice and often a lot of maintenance depending upon the girl/guy. Some people just don't want a hassle after going through it, need time to just relax, reflect and chill.
Also, as much as you like someone, everything comes to an end. Relationships begin, flourish, decline and end, that's part of life. Lower your expectations and don't pour your heart into any guy, it will save you hurt and heartache down the road. Set that aside for when or if you decide to marry, at least 10 years down the road from where you are now.
either he just likes u cuz he wants in your pants or he is just lookin for smone to toy with and hes not serious, unless he just go out of a bad relationship with a bad break up
More than likely he does not want to be hassled, phoned non-stop throughout the day/night and pestered hence he is being sincere. Relationships have good aspects but also bad ones. Perhaps he recently came off a not so good relationship and needs/prefers time alone.
Also, as much as you like someone, everything comes to an end. Relationships begin, flourish, decline and end, that's part of life. Lower your expectations and don't pour your heart into any guy, it will save you hurt and heartache down the road. Set that aside for when or if you decide to marry, at least 10 years down the road from where you are now.
When a guy opens a door for you, he's really asking: "Would you like to have my penis".
Just remember, no matter what he says, he's really asking: "Would you like to have my penis".