I'm 17, and I have never had a g/f or kissed a girl. It really wasn't a problem until I started high school and saw all of these happy couples.
I don't believe i'm an ugly person, just over weight. Is this normal?
Youre not the poster that wrote "Im an obese old man with needs" are you? I suggest you get out and present yourself to females more. More likely you will 'get the girl' if you are actively seeking.
The so called happy couples you are referring to are actually short term friendships that for the vast majority will end within a year or two. Don't be misguided by boys and girls holding hands or kissing in the hallways, it is all a big display for other students. Few people can manage to carry on with high school romantic relationships once the college years begin.
There are just too many factors that bring it to an end......residing at different schools, pressures to achieve good academic standing, a whole new cast of students surrounding them daily, part time jobs, parents who encourage children to meet new people, etc. etc.
I found college to be a far better atmosphere to meet new people and far easier to date. You will see few "clicks" in college that are widespread in high school.
Change your diet to a healthy one, exercise daily and get in shape. Look for the post high school years to make your move on the ladies. High school and college years are like polar opposites, both academically and socially.
Sisophous is right, you don't want to get yourself fucked up emotionally when you're in high school. I had a buddy in high school who was dating a girl a year older than him for almost three years. When she went to college they broke up, he hasn't moved on yet, she appears to have moved on. That was almost a year and a half ago, since then he's been in a downhill slide. His last girlfriend made me want to vomit. She lasted two weeks. He uses relationships to fulfill his physical and emotional needs because he can't have the girl he wants. He is also very metrosexual and an asshole in general, which is new since the breakup. And now I'm really just rambling because I forgot where this was going halfway through. Oh well, the moral of this story is don't get too worried in high school, very few good relationships come from high school anyway.
Your not alone.. but its also not normal... being fat is rediculous... its unacceptable and you should feel ashamed about it. theres no reason on the face the planet that can excuse being overweight or fat or worse.. UNCLEAN... All this aside if you have a lymph node problem(not an eating disorder those are just crutches ppl use) and your body dosnt metabolize food right. fine... other then that.. CHICKS DONT LIKE FAT DUDES.. GET UN FAT OR STAY SINGLE. god dude, RESPECT YOUR BODY. if not for anyone else that your trying to push up on at a party. but DO IT FOR YOURSELF.
Dont flag this as abusive either.. im trying to inspire you to take care of yourself... EVERYONE should.
I agree with sisophous dont get yourself all worked up bout other couples. Most couples have a lot to hide under skin that will one day break them up. You have years left of your life and I am sure there is soeone very special out there for you that you will grow old with
I didn't have my first real (non-motherly)kiss till I was 17 and of course, instantly fell in love. This girl was a beach barbie babe and made lotsa guys crazy. I survived somehow and got taken advantage of by all the wrong girls. There were nice girls who wanted to be my girlfriend but I was so obsessed by the best looking ones that I didn't notice. LESSON - Go for personality, not looks or body! This lesson works for either gender.
Ask out a girl who you think you can get with. Take her to the movies, and when theres a corny romantic scene, make your move. This works great. Try putting your arm around her when you can sort of predict a romantic scene coming up, and try looking at her when you know its coming really soon. If you have to, go see the movie by yourself before the date so that you can plan (I've never done it, but then again, I think it'd work). Try getting a nice innocent girl, you haven't even had your first kiss, so you shouldnt even be thinking about sex right now, and mayb wait until the second or third date (though your a bit older, so the first might be suitable). Also, try getting a younger girl (around 15) since you have so little experience, no offense intended.
high school is a bad place to get in relationships. There was an aids scare in a high school, one guy caught it, then slept with ten sluts, that each slept with god knows how many people.....now a lot of peoples lives are ruined because of highschool relationships....people dont think it happens...but it does....
.its ok dont feel the need to get involved in the sluttiness of high school...you will find someone
There are just too many factors that bring it to an end......residing at different schools, pressures to achieve good academic standing, a whole new cast of students surrounding them daily, part time jobs, parents who encourage children to meet new people, etc. etc.
I found college to be a far better atmosphere to meet new people and far easier to date. You will see few "clicks" in college that are widespread in high school.
Change your diet to a healthy one, exercise daily and get in shape. Look for the post high school years to make your move on the ladies. High school and college years are like polar opposites, both academically and socially.
Dont flag this as abusive either.. im trying to inspire you to take care of yourself... EVERYONE should.
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.its ok dont feel the need to get involved in the sluttiness of high school...you will find someone