That she lost her virginity is a non-issue, it makes no difference whatsoever. In fact, she will likely be less tense following her first time and more relaxed in the futur. First time sex is more often lousy and particularly in a car where body movement is restricted.

I highly doubt she is bonded to the guy being it was her first time. Females do release a chemical of love called oxytocin which bonds them and it is commonly secreted by the brain during sexual intimacy and when they are nursing a newborn. It causes the female to form a strong connection to her mate and when breastfeeding a newborn, to dismiss the sleepness nights when being awakened to care for the baby.

Do whatever you wish, just lower your expectations so you will not set yourself up for disappointment. There is no reason to feel heartbroken for other peoples actions which are out of your control.

another thing that concern me was how easy she was. "he asked me if i wanted to fuck, i didnt know what to say, so i said ok." didnt know what to say ?! but youre right sisophous. thanks for the comment.

ilostfaith,

I've seen that happen before, a girl give in rather easily to a crude gesture. It often is a response by the girl that is planned well in advance and she has made up her mind to accept if a willing partner is to approach her. Much of it has nothing to do with the guy who propositions her, but rather curiosity and experimentation. If it is a one time occurrence, it is no big deal, but if it is repetitive or a pattern to it, then other issues are likely involved.

More often, if a girl is promiscuous or readily accepts multiple guys sexual advances it means she is lacking a father figure who is absent in her life. She then replaces the missing father figure by supplementing his role with a boy and acts out sexually. The role of a father, adult male figure and support from him are extremely important to a girl. Without one, girls tend to rebel and act out.

Is this always the case? Absolutely NOT, but more often this pattern holds true.

wow sisophous, thank you again for enlightening me.

nothing worse than having someone tell you they lost their virginity in a car near a restaurant named Steak n' Shake! Hmm, I can tell why you're upset!

i love that restaurant...anyways...being a virgin has nothing to do with personality and the chemistry between two people if you like her then dont let that issue get in the way.

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