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He loves me.

I've been dating the same person for almost a year. He's cheated on me pretty much the entire duration of the year. I recently moved in with my sister a couple of hours away, and I found out he's been telling people we're not seeing eachother anymore and he has a new "girlfriend," even though he drives up to see me every couple of weekends. My family tells me to stop talking to him and spend time with this new guy I'm interested in, but I chose to ignore them and pretend like nothing is going on. I find it impossible to move on, and he still controls everything that I do.
Is this normal?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (9)
roger49 (3711)
2007-02-06 14:05:43
Wow, this guy is obviously an asshole. Why you would stick with him makes absolutely no sense to me. You need to:

A) get some self-esteem

B) Tell your "boyfriend" to go fuck himself

C) Wait until you have enough self-esteem to not date some asshole loser before getting into another relationship.
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crazyme (4954)
2007-02-06 14:36:54
Listen to your parents...dump him...he give you no respect why you want to be with him. Find someone else that treat you better. He has no right to control you when he's cheating on you.
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sisophous (3738)
2007-02-06 15:07:07
The purpose of dating is to find people who we are most compatible to be around, not to latch onto the first guy/girl and remain with them long term.

Be glad you haven't created a child with him. Many women have self destructed behaviors/patterns and are attracted to abusive and irresponsible people and later in life complain and moan about being the victim.

It's your choice to make, if you haven't the fortitude to break away from him, seek professional help. You obviously know exactly what is going on, likely from day one when you met.
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Nodo_TheRanter (5564)
2007-02-06 17:25:43
Go make me a sammich.
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mindfreak (4990)
2007-02-25 02:13:42
why do stupid fucking girls like you stay with stupid cheating jackoff dickhole reatrded waste of space unfaithful pile of kangaroo shit on a stick poor excuses for men? BREAK UP WITH THE FUCKER HES USING YOU OBVIOUSLY HE'S NEVER GONNA CHANGE YOU STUPID GIRL
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mindfreak (4990)
2007-02-25 02:14:14
HE DOESNT LOVE YOU
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quaygurl (7058)
2007-03-30 15:39:40
girl, get it together. why would you want to be with someone who treats you like garbage when you could be with someone that treats you like gold? work it out.
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Lifesucks31696 (7501)
2007-04-12 21:18:59
ok, were to start? well i am a boy and i have one anser. normaly if they are cheating they lost intrest lock you doors so he can't get in and bif he dose call the cops and if he gets out learn cerroty or tell youi new boy friend to come over will he comes over kk
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wtfhi (7728)
2007-04-18 14:19:33
tell him to f0ck off the stupid cheating c0nt
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