I've been married for 5 yrs now, and im thinking about exploring the "sexual scene" alittle. Im trying to get my wife to have a 3some with me and another guy, and she's not into it. Am I wrong to ask, or should she try to go with it?
Its not wrong to ask but you have to respect her feelings on the situation and dont pressure her into a decision, else you might be rephrasing your comment to "I WAS married...."
Valid threesome configurations include: (Female, Female, Female) and (Male, Female, Female). The configuration you are suggesting just doesn't make sense.
You can ask, but don't think you're entitled to her doing something she doesn't want to do. It's not like she married you knowing that 5 years later you'd want to have a 3some.
I believe you are wrong to ask. Sex is the most sacred bond two people may have. Even if our culture no longer holds that, I continue to believe that is the true way.
sounds like you already asked, and she said no. you weren't wrong to ask, and she's not wrong to say no. but you will be wrong if you keep harping on the topic or try to force her to "go with it." rent some porn or something.
Sometimes you have to take into consideration that not all people are turned on by group sex or sex "outside" the traditional marital custom. A lot of people believe that asking for a 3-some is like admitting you want to cheat on them. If it's just a fantasy and you still love your wife, make sure you make that clear when you proposition to her. If you really don't give a crap and want to have sex w/ more people, then maybe you shouldn't be married.
Anyway, introduction a new partner can only bring tears. What if the other dude rails her really, REALLY well? Something might happen which means her leaving you for him. Of course, if your mariage is already going downhill this might set it back on track or fuck it up completly.
In short, GO FOR IT, just try not to get to many juices on you :(
wtf..
Anyway, introduction a new partner can only bring tears. What if the other dude rails her really, REALLY well? Something might happen which means her leaving you for him. Of course, if your mariage is already going downhill this might set it back on track or fuck it up completly.
In short, GO FOR IT, just try not to get to many juices on you :(