Ahh I had this problem about a year ago. I thought I met the girl of my dreams. We had been high school buddies since day one and I thought we were going to be together forever, then we ended up in two different colleges, and two different life goals that only lead further away from each other. I was totally crushed knowing this and it hurt me for the longest time. The only care for something (at least that worked for me) was to find something better then them. Thats what happen to me because i'm so in love with my girlfriend right now I have I hardly remember the bad times. So in short, fall in love with another person and you'll forget the pass events

Sisophous agrees with MidnightShadow, you need to make new relationships and just let it go. I take it this person does not share your same feelings and you realize this otherwise would have approached him.

People often have tunnel vision and become preoccupied with one person which often builds frustration and can make us miserable. Such infatuations interfere with our daily activities and are counterproductive to happiness. Get out and meet new people, join clubs, go to parties. Rigorous exercise is also terrific to rest your mind. Go out and jog a few miles or swim laps in an indoor pool.

This special person is not the only one who will capture your heart, there are plenty more just around the corner if you are open minded and give other people a chance. In time, this special guy will eventually fade away, like a distant memory.

Obsess much? Jesus Christ get a hobby.

Once Nodo, always Nodo, huh??
Thank god I know you from that weird website. So I can prepare psychologically. Duh.

Obsess much? Yeah, very, despite millions of hobbies.
And what about you, rude much? YEAH.

Fuck off troll

Oh come on, im sure you can get over me eventually.
It just takes a lot of time and will power.

I have faith in you... you can do it!

get rid of all his crap that he gave you (i suggest burning); you dont want to think of him anymore. then get yourself a gallon of choclate Haagens-Daas and watch "The Producers"

alcohol.
lots.

yeah i recently went through a similar situation. It sucks and I'm still not over her but things do get better with time. BTW, sisophous nailed it when he said "Such infatuations interfere with our daily activities and are counterproductive to happiness." So true.

Had the same thing happen to me with a car, once. I thought about it day in an day out. I wanted it so bad. I couldn't sleep at night. I couldn't eat. It tore me apart. I got the car, but it left me. Love sucks, huh? Even today, I wonder what would have happende if I'd only treated that car nicer.

Don't let them fool you, some things you will NEVER get over. I even thought about killing myself. Then I Iound a VW beetle. Now I'm happy.

Jess

I understand where you are comming from, I was with an older woman since I was 17 years old she was 27. We got married 3 years ago but things just don't seem right anymore. We both have a different point of view on everything. I love her so much but we need to let go. I can't seem to get her out of my head and it drives me insane. I was diagnosed with Bipolar and this doesn't seem to help the situation any lol. The thought of someone else being with my true love I think would send me off the deep end. I'm 27 now and still can't deal with losing her.