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i dont understand ...
have a boyfriend, at first everyone said i was out of his league but after everyone saw how much we liked eachother everyone say that they thought we were so cute together, well now hes starting to spend alot more time with my sister which i dont mind them being friends at at and i know there not up to anyhting seeing as how i dont have any classes with him and she has almost all of hers with him (his name is alex by the way) and now that hes spending more time with her hes not talking much at all to me... now as far as my knowledge goes all guys are suposed to be careful with there girlfriends.. am i right? well it seems he isnt careful at all anymore, tho i can tell just like before he still in some ways obsessive but things like he dosent call anymore, and whenever i call him he just says he has to go do homework.... i dont get it its like one minute he loves me the next were not even dating... i know he loves me and that i love him ... but what is going on ???
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............. (4996)
2007-02-09 23:29:13
and now shes at his house ...
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smithee (4389)
2007-02-10 00:38:12
jesus-fallen just urinated in a bottle. 12:34 est. 2/10/07
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roger49 (3711)
2007-02-10 02:29:29
lovely smithee thank you for informing us of that. Poster, I think it's time to play ditch the asshole. Your boyfriend obviously likes your sister more than he likes you. Since when does homework take precedence over your girlfriend? I think your relationship's days are numbered. My advice is dump him before you get hurt.
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cabinet70 (4440)
2007-02-10 08:41:57
It sounds like he wants your sister now
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sisophous (3738)
2007-02-10 11:16:49
Friendships change all the time. Young people like to think they are committed to one another but it seldom lasts long. People also have a right to pick and choose whomever they want to spend time around. It sounds like you expected a lot more from this former boyfriend and for him to reciprocate your kindness.

I suggest you look to making other friends and do not invest anymore time in this boy. Also, do not harbor any ill will toward your sister, she is not to blame, no one is for that matter. Lower your expectations in the future with any boys and you will be less likely to get hurt or upset.
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DeepBlue (4765)
2007-02-10 11:21:18
@: smithee
So thats what you two nitwits do on your free time on a saturday in upstate New York, urinate into bottles? Real nice guys.
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sexy_college_girl18 (5974)
2007-02-21 23:04:28
@: DeepBlue
Ok so I do agree a lot with "Sisophous"....I do not think you should lower your standards I think you should think about what it is you want in a guy and then make sure they are "REALISTIC" you need to know and believe that you "ARE WORTH" a good kind caring boyfriend........as for this guy you should just go ahead and get rid of him anyone guy would rather spend time with your sister than you is not who need to be with.......GOOD LUCK!!! with ur problem
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Neuroticism (9109)
2007-06-29 00:25:30
I got some early wisdom about the Boyfriend/Girlfriend situation, you're not married so there's no real loyalty, and if you're not planning marriage, and he wanders off to get a little "something", psh, drop it, pick another man, there's millions to choose from, each a different flavor.

You're going to go through tons of those types that pretend they love you, but in reality are after your body, and if you're kinky and open-minded, have a threesome with your bf and sister, lol, good luck.
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hotchick (3358)
2007-07-16 19:05:45
sorri hunni! but it sounds so weird that hes spending most of his time with your sister. they might not be up to nothing at all...he might be falling out of love with you. have a chat with him and ask him if evrything is ok between you... it could be something else and not your sister....good luck
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