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Dating guys older than me
I'm a 15 year old girl and i met this guy, hes 21,his names nick and i really like him and he really likes me.I want to be his girlfriend and he wants to be my boyfriend but he wants to really get to know eachother first and i agreed.And we've been sexually active but havn't had SEX yet we only have oral for now and i was just wondering if it was wrong for a 15 year old and a 21 year old to date?
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IT'S WRONG!

Wait until you're 18 then you can hump like a rabbit.

He's a perv.

Oiling up a dildo and ramming it home is probably a better option for you at 15.
If you are not of legal age to consent then it is illegal to have sexual relations with him, even if it is only oral. Nothing may happen to you, but the guy risks prosecution and getting labelled as a sexual predator/sexual offender and possibly going to jail. Copy and paste the below link. Check out the chart and keep away from him if you are not of legal age.

http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm
Dont listen to those pretzels above if you love each othe rnothing wrong with it and yous sound sensible just be carefull of the age of consent laws
Sounds like he's a pedophile to me. A normal 21 year old won't touch a 15-year-old because it's just plain wrong.
I wouldn't touch anything under 2-3 years of my age... find someone in your high school and get it on at the winter dance, your welcome.
I agree with Cabinet70. There's nothing wrong with it...you shouldn't be judged for loving someone older.
Slow it down lolita. Age difference is ok when you are older, not 15...

Where we these girls when I was 15?
Its normal for you to be attracted to him, however it is not normal for him to be attracted to you, there has to be something wrong with him or else he wouldn't be messing around with girls that are like 6 years younger than him.
What if he was 36 and she was 30. Does that make it creepy, I think not.
yeah, it's normal, ignore these morons. they're sexually repressed and also resent the fact that other men get to play with perky 15 year old titties. they're also ignorant as to what a pedophile is. pedophiles are attracted to prepubescent CHILDREN. puberty is the point of sexual maturity. once you pass it, you're no longer a child.

but there are good, solid, logical reasons for you two not to get involved. even though your father definitely wants to sleep with every one of your 15 year old girlfriends, if he finds out you have a 21 year old boyfriend, he's going to break his legs with a baseball bat and probably do something horrible to his balls that neither you nor your boy will be very pleased with. and then there's prison. you don't want this guy that you "really like" to be anally raped by 6 large, HIV positive black convicts, do you? neither does he.
I find this subject quit humorous actually. I mean think about it. We are the only creature on the face of the planet that worries about age. Look at dogs for instance, a 5 year old Male will fuck a 1 year old Female in a flash. Now in human years, they're like 30 years apart. I'm starting to think humans are naturally stupid. Well at least the humans that make the laws. Human girls are sexually ready at the age of 10-11, and Boy's at the age of 12-14. I mean I wouldn't go and fuck a 10 years old but still, the sexual laws today are fucking retarded.
its not really normal but if you really like him i would wait till your 18 to do anything you might regret later!
nah! its not normal!

sounds like a pedo 2 me!

al least wait until your 18 then you wont regret anyhing!! x
@: DrSham
if he makes you happy then go for it!
OEDOS....you need to stay with guys your age! Remember that any guy over 16, some 18 can be arrested if they have relationshipd with KIDS your age!
Don't worry - you're probably just a slut. I'd kill yourself before it's too late.
Thats discusting, that guy should have his fucking teeth kicked out. stupid fucking girls like you make me wanna snap. your an idiot. Fucking pedofile, Don`t be a little slut like the other 99 percent of girls these days. fuck i hate slutty girls, its a real turn off. Trust me after he bangs you a few times he`s going to leave you. Even after he says none of this is true, guys are very convincing and mulipunative an can make you belive anything. I``m really good at it, good thing im not a freak like your boyfriend and i can get girls my own age. Don`t be stupid please, the answer is NO! all around. there is no way you should go out with a 20 year old or sleep with him. He might be charming,nice,really cute w/e dont be a fucking slut. tell him were to go and give him a kick in the nuts and a punch in the lips. I will whats his name?
@: kinky.
Okay I think this is a total double standard to say "it is okay for you to be attracted to him, but not okay for him to be attracted to you." What the hell does that mean? You're saying it is okay for her because she is totally innocent, she's a girl and underage and "doesn't know any better?" Just because it is ILLEGAL only for the older guy does NOT mean it is normal (or make it OK) for the younger girl to be attracted to an older man. After all, the ONLY one who will have to pay for this crime in the end and answer to a hairy man named Bubba in his jail cell is the older guy, NOT the younger girl. You are BOTH old enough to know better. It may be (unfortunately) normal for some 15 year-olds to dress, act, talk, smoke and drink like 21 year olds, but it is NOT normal or right to try and be sexually intimate with a 21 year old. Find someone your own age, and don't give this any guy more reasons to break the law.
ok you have to listen to me! i dont want you to get hurt. i understand that your realy like this guy but listen, sometimes the nicest ones can be the ones to fool you the most [and break you heart] beileve me i have seen something like this happen before: *read my story*


well in 10th grade my frends and i went on a dating website. We found a super hot guy and messaged him. he said he would be interested going out with one of my friends named tara and he didnt care about the age difference. (im not going to get into all of the details) but long story short: they started dating and sure enough he was just doing it for the sex. She found a bunch of websites on his computer he had gone to and a bunch of women he had met. like seriously this guy was a perv.

now im not saying this is your case. who knows the guy could be nice. but take it from someone who knows- you need to be careful. If I were you i would end things. Just say you need to find someone a little bit more your age. If hes worth your time he'll be fine with it and he'll understand that the two of you just need to be friends.
You're attracted to who you're attracted to.
I was 14... last year, ha, and I liked a 21, now 22, year old.
Some people are just attracted to older people, while others are attracted to younger..
You are a fucking gross slut. You should date me, im 19. Or i have a friend that is 21 that would love to meet you.
i hope he kidnaps you, rapes you, and leaves you to die in a ditch, you idiotic whore.
fuck what ppl say or think if you,like diz foo and he likes you da rest of da ppl dont matter... when i was 13 i dated a guy dat was 16 almost 17 and we went out 4 like 8 months and it was all gud!!!! age dont matter....
have a big poo and think about it...will this relationship last ? is he a loser ? don't get besotted with him...you are young and it probably won't last...millions of people go through things like this...it's just part of learning the ropes...to be honest he's a fcukin pervert...he should give you the space you need to live your life..you're way too young to be bothered with this sh1t... on the plus side if he p1sses you off you can get him arrested for having sex with an underage girl..hehehe.
what about to be clean?
what about if he want do the sexual act complete?
what about of respect yourself?
what about if he decide finnish that relation and you decide have a new boy friend?
will you have that kind of relations with all boyfriends that you could have?
is your decision do with your body all that you want , but too is your reponsability what happen with it.-
wait for have the right edge for have sexual relations, and have all the prventions for not be infected.-
do you think that only with you does he oral sex?
what about if he goes to bed with several persons in addition of you?
sex is very delicius, yes , but you deserve be loved and love with correspondence, but in a marriege relation.-
first grow up, and after 18 you can be resposable of your own, meantime you parents are the reposables.-
consult it with your mother or your father , nobody can counsel you better.-
you deserve be happy, yes , but with sapietce,
deciding what is convienient for you and what is not,
you have a value in front of God eyes.-
its called statutory rape. you are too young(under 18) and he is over 18... meaning if you get caught he can go to jail.
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