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PLEASE HELP!

I know this is a long post but I really need some advice. Okay, I know I have posted several stories about this girl I work with that I am infatuated, well WAS infatuated with but this is different. She doesn't want to be with me and I am now over her but before I was over her I talked about her at work with a friend of mine and apparantly she found out and went to our bosses, the elderly couple that owns the pizza place we work at. She told them that she knew I talked about her and didn't feel comfortable working with me anymore. She may have even said something about her feeling that she didn't feel safe around me. She is making me out to be some sort of a creep and everyone who knows me knows that I am not. I have two good friends that work there that heard what happened and are with me thinking that she took it way too far by going to our boss. I haven't even been talking to this girl much for the past few weeks. I could see her telling our bosses if I had been harassing her or something like that but I haven't been talking to her much at all because I sensed she didn't want me to. Anyway, I am afraid that everyone there is going to take her side and think that I am a creepy stalker and dislike me and say that she was right approaching our boss. So I have some options: I thought about approaching this girl and apologizing but one of my friends told me i should just leave it alone. I also thought about approaching my bosses and telling them they had nothing to worry about and that this girl was overreacting. And finally, what me and my friends are already planning on doing is this: This girl is trying to drag my name through the mud so I get her first. Tomorrow at school one of my friends is going to talk to a coworker and badmouth this girl and tell her how dumb she is being. He is then going to talk to this girl directly at work tomorrow and tell her she is a dumb b**ch and that she is going to ruin my reputation. This should work since this friend of mine is also a friend of this girl. Basically my two friends are going to talk to coworkers and make her out to be the bad guy, which she is. She has overreacted and taken it too far. As many of you have pointed out, this girl is a manipulative b**ch who will say one thing and do another. I have finally realized that behind her sweet, pretty girl facade, there is an ugly interior. I know my final idea seems mean but she has put me through hell for five months. Keep in mind that I am finally over this girl and wouldn't take her back now if she asked me. She broke my heart and now is trying to make me out to be some sort of creep. What should I do?
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Comments (10)
I don't know what to tell you other than it seems to me that that would be sinking to her level. I think you should take the moral high ground.
I think you shouldn't tell your bosses. You shouldn't apology. Just work different schedule and be yourself. Bosses have their eyes to look from what they see of who you are. Try to be yourself and not think too much about it
Gessh . . . you haven't gotten over her if you're thinking of this badmouthing plan.

Leave it be, don't do anything. I suggest you find another job . . .
i think you should slap her. hard.
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This is the poster. Trust me, I am over her, I'm now just mad that she's doing this to me. I've really got no other choice than for me and my friends to "badmouth her." We are not going to badmouth her perse. She has said some other stuff and basically broke my heart and now is trying to make me look bad, so we are just going to try to get people to realize what a bad person she really is. If I quit, that's just what she wants, so I'm not going to do that.
This is an excellent example of why workplace romances are bad. Sounds to me like you're stuck between a rock and a hard place.
Man, find your way to bang her until she sweat no more... and then dump her.
to long to read
find a girl friend to beat her down.... stomp her pretty face in.