That's because women are mad.
Once you behave a bit like an asshole you'll soon get them flocking around you like flies around dung.

Sometimes a girls judgment can be clouded. Sometimes nice guys appear not to have confidence. Sometimes nice guys appear too keen and scare the girl. Sometimes the bad guy seems appealing for their exciting lifestyle. There are many more reasons why sometimes nice guys win last, but the girls who do say they are looking for a nice guy usally mean it.

Very common story and there are several reasons for this. Bad boys provide some excitement in their otherwise dull lives.

Nice guys are looked upon as boring or not a challenge and thus not desirable compared to the bad guys or can provide more stimulation.

Many of these women have not grown up and literally do not know what they want. When they mature, the vast majority crave a nice guy and learn to stay clear away from the bad ones. Unfortunately, usually by this time it is too late and they have developed some strong resentment towards men who they blame for their poor choices. I always say, it's about choosing wisely.

Women who have pride, strong self-respect, strong self-esteem will not get involved with the bad ones and will pick and choose wisely.

Nice guys dont know how to fuck simple

They won't date you because you are a loser.

I've never met a "nice guy", and I don't think I ever will.

To be honest, as a nice female, I'm sick of reading about how these "nice guys" complain that the asshole always gets the girl. Sure, the asshole always gets the bitchy, slutty, stupid, but none-the-less hot, girl. And that's all the "nice guy" wants too.

In fact, I don't get what's so nice about this "nice guy." Just because he is willing to "listen" to the girl go on and on about her asshole boyfriend doesn't quite make him a "nice guy". But he thinks that since he puts up with her blabbing and complaining and stupidity, he is a nice guy. No. He is just plain stupid. Of course then he goes home and wacks off to some over-waxed chick on his computer screen. Real nice.

Of course, this "nice" guy is a complete liar just like the asshole. He isn't nice, he is just more manipulative. He is willing to hold out longer and play more games for the chick with the biggest breasts and the smallest brains, and this is probably because he isn't as hot as the asshole, and/or has a smaller dick, and knows he needs to work harder. However, both the asshole and the "nice guy" in pursuit for cock-sucking set of breasts have missed a precious commidity: the nice girl.

Fuck all that shit, nice guys always finish last. I swear there is a post like this every day. What a bunch of pussies.

They usually do when they get married for the second time baby.

How you doin?

Not true, IMO at least. I consider myself a "nice guy" and have been told I am but I have never been attracted to "bad girls" or sluts.

women bresk up and always say it was the man its not because im a stupid bitch or that i cheated on him if you ask me women are only after mens money they usually could care less about men i mean im not saying all women are like this but most are. i hate women who say men are so sexist when really its the other way around women always get custody over the children and if a woman shot a man its self defence not a crime and not investigated

It's all physical "bad boy" tend to be the type that are physical stronger and more macho. It's primative mating instinct really. Pure biology. Your best bet is to forget about being a nice guy and just be a guy find a female whenever you put up with a female that looks at least half decent for length of time you'll get used to her. Thats it in a nut shell. Oh don't worry about that little thing called love i'll save you the stress it's a lie it doesn't exsist. Purely biochemical responses generated to assure a mating oppurtunity. You lose not becauser you're nice but you've simply been out competed sexualy. Simply lower your standards. If it has breast and a pulse your mind will eventually generate the illusion of love.

i'm am what i would call "A nice guy!" i'm not pretending to be anything! i respect women and hav been called a absolute gentleman by a few!! i don't want a slut as stargirl said i dont want some hore with big breasts as Gina69 said! i am a genuinely nice guy! my only problem is that i am a bit shy!

I want a "nice guy" and I'm not just saying that I want someone who's honest, protective(but not to protective)sweet,hansome,cute,HOT,someone who would love me and I would be enough for him so that he diden't feel like he had to or wanted to go sleep with another woman...if there are any guys with all those traits in the world.

because the nasty ones come in disguise as ncie once. girls dont have good 'nice guy reception'

Couture are you following me? This is my chaos plan not yours! In my own case it was just over a decade ago when my brother began to sound different on the phone. He lived back East and my parents and I were living on the West coast and in phone calls it became apparent that my brother's voice no longer had the same tones of excitement and humor that he used to; and instead it was very flat. At the same time he began to tell us about a situation at work that just didn't seem possible; he was complaining that a group of fellow workers were conspiring to get him.

My brother was fresh out of college and was starting in a Sales job at a fast growing computer company and said that there was jealousy by the other salespeople there because many of them didn't have a college degree and that he was on the "fast track". Then he started telling us that he wasn't feeling very good and that he thought that one of these scheming co-workers had stuck him with a needle with some unknown drug so as to take him out of competition for the top jobs in the company. He also said he felt strange, and didn't have much energy and couldn't concentrate.

Obviously this whole story seemed very unbelievable and we sensed something was wrong but had no clue as to what it could be. We recommended that my brother quit his job and look for something else - as we began to wonder if he had a "mental breakdown" and would get better once out of the stressful job situation. A month or two after he quit his job he suddenly began calling me from payphones because he thought that people were bugging his phone and that famous business people in the country were trying to get his new business ideas. This was so "far out" as to be entirely unbelieveable and we suddenly realized that something was very clearly and seriously wrong - what exactly that was took us another 5 years to find out definitively, which is the saddest part. We went through a number psychiatrists and psychologists who thought he was fine or only a little paranoid (he always seemed to pull together enough to present a reasonable front to the psychiatrists but we knew the old John, and something was still definitely wrong - but you keep hoping that they are right and that he just needed a few months to get back on his feet).

My recommendation to people who are either wondering if they have schizophrenia - or
wondering if a friend or loved one has schizophrenia - is to first contact talk with people in the schizophrenia.com discussion areas, or contact the Local NAMI (in the USA), or Schizophrenia Society (in Canada), and visit one of their meetings to talk with other parents or family members and get a recommended psychiatrist from them who is experienced with schizophrenia. I think one of our key problems was that we didn't do this in the early days of my brother's illness (though misdiagnosis sounds very common in schizophrenia cases) - and because of this we may have missed the opportunity to get treatment. This lack of treatment during the early years of the illness, research now suggests, could have been a key factor in his ultimately poor recovery and suicide.

After a few meetings with psychiatrists - and no improvement in my brother's condition - he became disillusioned with the medical profession and would no longer see doctors. It took us almost 6 years until he then degenerated to the state where he could he had become so delusional that he had to be hospitalized. If we had gotten him medication much earlier I think he would still be alive today.

Mental Illness does not exist. Spread the word Couture!!! Us comrades must unite...

that is true, b/c nice guys are to nice to try sexual stuff, so most girls go 4 guys that have better sex lives b/c most nice guys have no clue what they are doing when it comes to sex!!! no offense!!!

well that is true...why i dont know but for me i like bad boys because they are adventureous and they dont sweet talk you they take charge. i like when they are fun and take control. plus most girls want lots of excitement in their lives. but if this helps you try going out with a girl who is a "nerd" or a girl who cant get a boy to like her or date her and then there you go u got a girlfriend1!!

Woman are stupid. They are hypocritical, boring, not funny, non-creative, non-interesting, they clean, they cook, blah blah blah.
They like making a scene and taking control of situations.
Not that this has helped you in any way.

All you nice guys are fu**n Pus**s. Girls like hard everything, hard dic*, hard body, hard attitude, if they didn't theyd be lesbos

man ive been looking for a nice guy for a while remember beauty is in the beholders eyes something like that i dont really care if the boys ugly or cute im just looking for someone whos gonna treat me right but i dont know where he is i swear i really wouldnt care if he was the ugliest thing in the world its just boys usually are so mean in the ending i dont know i live in
Washington State

laprincessa, I can tell you nice guys are out there, but most women obviously go for the guys who are good with women, sweet talk them, sex them up like crazy, and then dump them, is a common pattern.
The ironic thing is, the nice guy is probably the guy you never noticed because when he talks to you, he is all nervous from inexperience, and you treat him like shit, because of his "not cool ways"

Look here, Nice guys are boring in a girls eyes its too easy, you have to add a sense of excitement, something out of the ordinary.
You have to be independant, not fawning over her all the fu**ing time. If you have trouble talking to women, the best way to learn is to grow a pair and walk up to some chick, practice makes perfect. Dont do anything you wouldnt normally do for someone else for her until youve been dating for at least 3 months and even then do small stuff. Nice guys can be nice but you cant get walked on, you cant be weak and you have to be yourself.
Its easy just don't think about it

And deep down inside tell yourself your the shi* on a regular basis, stop caring what they think, if one says no... pick another one up right in that girls sight and make her feel like she done missed out