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MY NAME IS JENNIFER I AM 11 YEARS OLD... MY STORY IS THAT IVE BEEN TALKING TO A 16 YEAR OLD BOY ON THE PHONE AND AT SCHOOL FOR ABOUT 2 MONTHS...AND HE HURT ME...NOW WE ARE TALKING AGAIN AND I MAY FEEL I LOVE HIM..I JUST DONT KNOW HOW TO TELL ME. HE ALSO GOES OUT WITH MY FRIEND...
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i agree with califighter. and ur definetaly too young to be dating at ur age
Does you mother know you are here?
you are too young and you cant fall in love with someone on the phone and you dont even know what love is
Yes, they're all right, you are too young, you don't know what love is, and you should stay away from guys that much older than you.
Any 16 year old talkign to an 11 year old has problems.

Stay away from him.
Where were girls like you when I was 16
OFCOURSE u dont love him dumb child .. u dont even know what that means yet ... enjoy ur childhood ...play toys and video games ... theirs plenty of time later in life to worry about "LOVE"
Jennifer, I would think that by now you probably know more about the boy and if he's worth your feelings or not.

I agree with restless ... a 16 year old should not be dating an 11 year old.

I also disagree with others when they say that you don't know what love is. Maybe you don't really love this guy, but maybe you do. The problem is that, at your age, there's nothing you can (or should) be doing about that.

Maybe sometimes you would look out of the window and see the stars, or the moon and you might think of him. That doesn't mean you love him.

Discovering the mysteries of love is important, but like Omofi said - enjoy your childhood. Think of loving your parents, loving your brothers and sisters - don't take that for granted. It's the strongest love there is and can tell you more about love than a 16 year old boy can, or anyone here for that matter.
uhm... NO.. if he's 16 and he's looking for a girl of 11 he's weird..Look for some1 of 13 o 14..a 16 years old guy will only play with you.. if he did it once.. he'll do it againg.. Fck him.. he's wayyy to weird..! If aguy of 16 likes u.. u can perfectly go out with someone of 14 or less..belive.. i know its your dream.. but NO..besides!! dont be bichtchi..Your friend is going out with him...FRIENDS FIRST!
i would forget about him, i remember wen i was 11 i had a crush on a 14 yr. old and he asked me out on a bet! i say if u r redy 2 date stick with guys that r either 11 or 12!
I totally disagree with every single one of these fools. They've obviously never been privlidge to fall in love. Love, is indeed, a very strong word. And I fell in love the first time when I was 14, with a 19yr old. I don't really have any advice for you. Maybe you should tell him. I mean, if you two are such good friends, it wouldn't matter, but then again, if he feels awkward, it could ruin your relationship with him, and his girlfriend.

Well, just wanted to tell you not to listen to these fools. Love comes to all ages. And let me tell you, first love, always ends up hurting you. Watch out for it dolly.

Xxoo.
Ash-lee Nightmare.
your to young go look up some porn or somthing instead of getting raped by a pedaphile
How old are you now? id guess your 13 now.. im just wondering how things are between you and him and if life progressed a lot (it likely often does) some love at 11 lasts but not usually. Authority would be worried about obvious things in a five year difference at a "non mature" age. This could be a part of Gods plan, or for you to learn something about life, but u also said he goes out with your friend, how much older than u is this friend he went out with?
thats gross, when you're 40, get into contact with him again
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