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Randomly thought I could be gay
I am currently 19, and have never had any gay thoughts at all. I played football in highschool and showered with my team mates, never felt excited or anything. Now that I hear a lot about gay people on the news and what gay people think like, I have had a weird thought that I might be gay... I never dated a lot because I am extremely shy around girls and don't have the balls to ask them out, which kind of made me wonder about myself. I was kind of a porn addict through high school, then I randomly stopped because all I could think about was sex. Is it normal for me to wonder about myself like this?
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I'm a 19 year-old female.So at our age exploring sexuality is normal.Without the peer-pressure surrounding of highschool it will be easier.I was also shy of the opposite sex but you have 2 learn 2 build your own confidence.Maybe you fear rejection or being hurt.But trust me men and women are capable of anything with matter's of the heart.Don't be afraid of being judged you focus on being happy.just find some nice young women who you feel compatible with and go from there.Don't rush anything let it flow.In a matter of time you'll find out which team's best 4 you.Remeber all men and women are not the same there are some good and bad apples in each bunch.So don't give up because of a rotten apple or two.GOOD LUCK!!
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You only have these thought because you havent had enough pussy it you get some you will forget all about this Im sure
GO GET SOME DUDE, you'll come out of your shell
@: smithee
i really doubt i am gay, ive always been obsessive over thoughts that bother me. every time i have a dream about love/sex its with a girl, and these thoughts might just be a reaction of me being really homophobic or having to read about what gay people think and feel for a college essay... it was so f***ing retarded
@: pww006
i just want to add, is it weird if this thought bothers me every single day, sometimes all day?

when i am busy i dont really think about it. earlier i was playing in an IM basketball tournament with my frat brothers and it never really bothered me until i reminded myself of it once. just this last week i was moderately drunk at my frat house, and i was talking with this girl and i had the sudden urge to fuck the shit out of her, which happens most of the time when i get into a convo with a girl while drunk. i guess it could be determined: hetero while drunk, so hetero while not.

about thinking about it every day, before i had these thoughts i had a problem with panic attacks. all day long id fear having a heart attack, and was convinced i had heart diease or something. every since i got this thought of being gay, i have never been bothered by heart attacks or being sick. coincidence?
be straight its the best way and nobody like gay people
your gay and needs to be beaten with a metal bat that has rust nails in it and contains aids and rat poison and extacy... then after your suffering have u place on hot coals over a bon fire left from a party for about 5 mins... then end with a fanally... gasoline and and cans of raid!!! plz peaople you do agre and you must say to yourself i do need to die cause i serve no purpose!
if you are trading anal sex for bologna sandwiches, well, that's kinda gay
I'm a 20 year old female, and at one point, I questioned the same thing you are. I find some women to be extremely attractive, and though I'm not at all addicted, I was more turned on by lesbian porn than hetero. Well, one embarrassing night my boyfriend browsed the history on my computer, and found some of the sites I had looked at. I was humiliated! But for once, I had to confront my feelings and talk to him about it. I've come to the conclusion that I'm not gay or bi. I think it's really normal and healthy to feel sexual arrousal from the opposite sex. Watch the movie Kinsey. That movie was extremely enlightening to me, and helped me realize my experiences are completely normal. And if you are gay or bi? That's normal too! I'm so irrited by all the idiot out there that think if someone's gay there's something wrong with them. We're ALL sexual beings and we all have our own perversions. EMBRACE IT!
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not everyone hates gay people, some do some dont
yea it is normal, but you might also be bisexual you never know..
It doesn't matter people need to realize being gay is not an illness or any thing. Everyone is a little bi. It is simply when your personal preference is towards your own gender. Thats it other than that gay people are no different unless they choose to be. Here is a fail safe way to answer it. Picture the hottest man you can. Now picture the hottest woman you can. Which attracted you more? If you answered your own gender you are Gay. This does not mean you have to exclusively go for your own gender. If you find a member of the opposite sex attractive go for it. I hope that helps
By the way, the original post, was by me, Gordon Keith, the famous radio TV personality on Sports Radio 1310 The Ticket AM in Dallas and of Mark Cuban Show and Gordon Keith Show fame and that awesome newspaper called Quick that I am a whore to Belo for and every 3rd grader should try to read every day and see my blog that never works at gordonkeith.com

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never heard of him
You have what is called "Gay OCD".

Read the article "I think it moved" at http://www.ocdonline.com/articlephillipson7.php. It explains gay OCD. Our society is so homophobic, it's causing people to freak out about whether they're gay or not. The more you question it, the worse it will be, because it's an unanswerable question, since sexuality is a continuum.

The cure is to just not care about your orientation. if you have a gay thought, so what, who cares. If you obsess about it, you'll just have more gay thoughts.
no you are not gay you just have these thoughts because guys wonder if they are beause they are afraid they are but really you arent. dont think to hard about it because you arent really... and if you are then it will come to you and it will just happen it wont matter how long or hard you think about it it really doesnt matter!!!
you're not gay... you're just an emo! and all of ya who said he is not gay, probably know that from experience. all fags!

bunch of emos!

ccc... but you're not a lost cause yet... just think about sweet hot pussy, and some bouncy boobs... how can you resist those

and for your sake, stop listening to this emos
FAGGOT!!! STONE HIM TO DEATH!!!
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