Ok, I'm a freshman at the local community college and there is this girl in my biology class who I want to ask out but am not sure how to go about it. I've never actually talked to her. I don't think she has a boyfriend as I've noticed she isn't wearing any sort of jewelry. But seeing as I've never talked to her what would be the best way to get her attention and ask her out?
roger hit the nail really, also, if she is out of your league, move on.
So, on the same day, do all these things
1) sit next to a girl in class
2) start a conversation, and keep it going!!
3) after the conversation ends(if you did it right, it should end at the end of class or should be a two part conversation, P1 at start P2 at end) say, "hey, whats your name?" *she answers* you say "ok"
4) Find her out of class (preferably right after class) and flag her down, and start walking next to her and talking (if u dont have a conversation going, or a faulty one, say "well i gotta go, seeya")
When THAT conversation ends, say goodbye
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DAY 2
* note, if everything went well, when she sees you she will smile
If she smiles on this second day, at you, thats a good indicator that you should keep talking to her (DONT EVEN DARE ASK HER OUT YET)
Keep a conversation going, but dont disrupt the class to much.
AFTER THAT CONVERSATION, ask if she wants to get lunch with you. (do lunch, because dinner is a bad choice when u just met her, lunch is more casual and easy going)
If she says sure, then when you guys get there, start more conversations!!!!!! (good conversations are THE MOST NECCASARY THING)
The only way you can ever get a girl is start a conversation!
Thats the most I can think of right now, trust me, it works! without conversations prior to asking to lunch, no girl will say yes.
Also, dont say "hey wanna go out with me?"
never ask a girl to go out with you b4 starting a simple relationship
ALWAYS say "wanna get lunch togeather?" because that does not imply that you have any intent other than having lunch with her.
Hope it helps. btw, make sure she isnt taken, and that she isnt like THE BEST LOOKING GIRL IN THE CLASS. Start with an average looking girl. (and yes, even average girls have some undesirable traits)
The confusion factor will most likely get you over the line with that one.
walk her to her next class have a nice chat with her tell her something reassuring and say hey will you go out with me? at the end
or eat a dick either way youre still gay!