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Gay or Straight?
I am 19, and from the beginning I always liked girls. My mom would yell at me when i was 5 at the beach for staring at babes walking by in bikinis. Growing up I always would try to watch those late HBO shows to see the naked women, and around 13 i discovered internet porn. i started out with just women, usually like playboy stuff. later on i just got addicted to porn and didnt care, as long as there was a hot girl in it. throught high school i always checked out the hot girls, and would fantasize in class about them. NEVER, before a month ago, had i thought about men. now, at 19, i randomly had a thought that i was gay. it bothers me a lot, since recently i have been in my dorm a lot doing work and not being sociable. when i go to my frat house to party and get drunk, i want to bone all the hot girls. i have a huge fear of rejection from girls and have never been successfull with them, so i get a little lonley about it. you think its possible for someone to be straight till they are 19, then all the sudden be gay?
(ive never done anything with other men)
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Comments (16)
pww006 (5975)
2007-02-18 03:37:07
also want to add that i never even questioned my sexuality when i was in my early teens. i had never even thought about being gay or anything. i didnt even know what being gay was till i was like 11.
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shunti (5798)
2007-02-18 04:19:30
I don't no if I'll be any help to you,because I'm a 19 year-old female.I consider myself I straight female, but I do have an occasional homo thought every now and then.Everyone wants to or has had a gay sexual experience.This is how I figured my sexuality out.Think about this can you see yourself with a man physically and mentally I could see myself with a woman as far mentally because of natural interest's. See rejection is all apart of life, even "gay" people get rejected at some point.You may think men are for you because your buddies understand you. I'm not trying to force you to be straight,but just try to find some nice young woman give them a chance. If you figure that's your uncomfortable don't force yourself find what you like.
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pww006 (5975)
2007-02-18 04:24:09
@: shunti
i dont like these thoughts i get, i want to be straight. i never had a crush on a guy growing up, i didnt even know what the hell being gay was till like middle school. i am obsessive compulsive with things, and i think i might just be so worried that i might be gay, that i end up just thinking like a gay person would. this was a spur of the moment thought i got like a month ago, it had NEVEr come to mind before that.
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pww006 (5975)
2007-02-18 04:27:59
i am a fucking dumbass, i dont even know why i am asking this, my computer background is a half naked picture of LeeAnn Tweeden
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shunti (5798)
2007-02-18 04:57:18
@: pww006
Trust me I didn't like my thoughts either. But I never did act on them,I can tell you really just need a nice and smart young lady. Just give it time the right girl will come along sooner than you think. If you no you DON'T want to be gay try to be around more woman even as a friend. See if you can find some you would like to date,you don't have to be serious.Woman like a gentleman someone who's funny,not afraid to smile,and can hold a little convo. Trust me once you find the "REAL" beauty of a woman LeeAnn Tweeden will probably get jealous that she doesn't have your attention.
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roger49 (3711)
2007-02-18 16:17:09
You're straight don't worry about it.
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Deadsea (6010)
2007-02-18 19:37:05
you sound pretty straight to me, and a word of advice. go for it, the worst they can do is say no and ridicule you, what the hell do they know. we're all just people, you will definitely bone more hottie's if u at least try as opposed to not even having the balls to say anything. oh yeah women love assholes even if they deny it. they'll think something is wrong with them and wonder and it eats away at them. i dont know if any of that made sense
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heinrich_himler (5827)
2007-02-18 19:46:05
Use a razor blade and cut your dick off. Or, even better, use hte old rusty not-so-sharp knife.
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Moonbeam (5922)
2007-02-19 08:47:02
I don't think you'd suddenly be gay however, it might be an awakening for you. A friend of mine only ever dated girls until his 20's and then started going with guys. I think he just didn't realise he was gay to begin with.

You may just be going through a phase, questioning your sexuality...this doesn't necessarily mean you are gay. It's normal for alot of people to have this doubts.
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Nodo_TheRanter (5564)
2007-02-19 15:18:41
Did you suddenly like listening to show tunes and musicals? Do you suddenly find Liza Minelli attractive?

If yes, you are a 'mo.
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TheBest (5966)
2007-02-20 18:45:19
Your straight
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pww006 (5975)
2007-02-21 19:59:21
While these thoughts continue to bother me a little, I had a dream last night about being with a girl and how awesome it was. I am pretty sure I am straight, I have just haven't had a gf in like 2 years, so I kind of forgot how great it was.
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tigerman (6288)
2007-03-02 08:06:06
Assuming you're male, Do you have fantasies about men? or do you find yourself attracted to them beyond just admiration? if not, then I would say that you're most likely heterosexual. It is not abnormal though to have an occational fantasy about the same gender and even to the point of experimenting, it does not indicate that you're gay.
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ninjadude (6349)
2007-03-09 07:26:36
Well, you said that you haven't had much luck with the ladies. You're probably so paranoid about rejection and subconcsiously know that men are much easier and acceptable that you one thought leads to the next. Unless you think that men are attractive, then you are most likely not gay/bi. You can always experiment to know for sure, but uhhh...that's up to you dude, just please, don't give any details.
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bradford (6500)
2007-03-11 15:43:12
Sounds like you may be suffering from OCD! Everyone has intrusive thoughts occasionally, however, you seem to be unable to dismiss them as just nonsense. I recently suffered from this problem but learned to just ignore stupid thoughts and get on with things. The chances you are gay are slim.
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slackjawedyokel (6678)
2007-03-24 11:29:02
we all have a spectrum of sexual feelings--no one is 100% straight or 100% gay at least in their brain,they may have never did any gay sex but even the most macho dude will think about it sometimes.whoever you are is whoever you are.dont sweat it.
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