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What should I think about this guy?!?!?!

Ok so I met this guy four months ago and we've been talking and hanging out...he is always saying really sweet stuff to me and he's always a really sweet guy he even bought me a sweet Valentines Day gift....We have never fooled around or EVEN KISSED B4 so i can't say he wanted me for one thing!!!...tHE PROBLEM IS sometimes he acts like he's not interrested like he will not call me for like two or three days... but once he does call its like I had been talking to all along he's back to being this sweet guy again..I do not know what he's thinking or if he really likes me or not...WHAT SHOULd I DO?!?!?!?...After four months I really like him.....guyz i REALLY want your perspective on this....what do you think he is thinking?
Do you think it's normal?
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sisophous (3738)
2007-02-20 12:28:51
Yes, he likes you, to what level I do not know. If you receive a gift on Valentines day it shows some affection. I also think nothing negative of him for not phoning you for several days. While some people can't live without chatting on the phone daily, I find it annoying if someone is constantly phoning me.

You should have some concern if a guy did not make any move whatsover to kiss you after four months, to me that is odd. It is not abnormal, but unusual, especially if he is attracted to you. He could just be very inexperienced or hesitant for some reason to initiate a kiss. Or, he could be gay, something I highly doubt but is always possible.

Do not worry about what someone else is thinking, it will only drive you nuts. After four months you can ask him how he feels about you and likely he will be sincere or you will be able to get some feedback.

Just my opinions.
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roger49 (3711)
2007-02-20 14:19:02
They may just be sisophous' opinions, but they're right. The guy obviously likes you, the fact that he doesn't call you every day means nothing. The fact that he hasn't kissed you has nothing to do with whether he likes you or not and is a good sign.
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48151623424815161344 (6051)
2007-02-20 18:22:34
I'm a guy and I'm shy. He might be too, sometimes I don't always want to make a move of any sort because sometimes I feel like I'd be forcing too much and start getting annoying.
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roger49 (3711)
2007-02-21 21:25:41
@: 48151623424815161344
Exactly, except for the annoying part. Even if he's not shy, he might not want to push you too hard and scare you away.
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sonic.echo (6320)
2007-03-03 12:42:43
i think he likes you! but since you probably dont show you like him as much back, he doesnt call EVERYDAY, just often enough to show that he cares. if you like it, encourage him!
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iluvme65 (6688)
2007-03-17 21:47:34
im 10, so im a total love noob,(i had a bf at age 9,:) ) but i think he may be cheating on you,my bf was cheating on me for a black haired japinise slut-faced dick hed-anyway,hes definitly cheating
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bthesailor (6827)
2007-03-24 17:02:53
Buy a 1000 piece puzzle. Give him 1 piece a day and tell him that if he completes it you will be his little Noogie-Noogie. If he refuses take alot of pictures of his feet and post them on Foot-fetish.com along with his real name and address
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