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I'm in love with my best friend
I don't know if this is normal, but recently, I got really attached to my best friend. Even though I don't like admitting it to other people, it's painfully obvious that I have feelings for her. I love her and I would do anything to make her happy. I'm too shy to tell and even then, I don't want to put our friendship in jeopardy. Is it normal at all to have these kinds of feelings for my best friend?
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Comments (17)
Yes its normal because you get along so well and have a lot in comon
yes, this is how most relationships get started!
Yes it's very normal and yes if you tell her you love her chances are the friendship will be weird. But I know how you feel. Maybe you should just ask her out and if she says no just play it off like no big deal. When you say it's painfully obvious though, do you mean just to other people or does she also know?
Her sister knows, so I'm pretty sure she knows too. But I talk to some third party friends about it.
itll never happen..she looks at you only as a "friend"
it is soo normal...u sound like a sweet guy but she prob doesnt like u.
unfortuanately sweetseventeen is probably right. Same thing happened to me a couple of months ago with one of my female friends. You can ask her out but if she says no don't push it and then pretend like it never happened. I completely took things too far with my friend and long story short, we're not friends anymore, you don't want that to happen.
Well, comin from agirl with plenty of experiance. Does she flirt with you I.E Laugh at every little thing yhoo say, Does she constantly touch yhoo or want to hug yhoo?
Does she always fone yhoo up first to ask yhoo about problems? Does she even fone yhoo at all?
If the answers to these questions are all yes then i think its safe to say that you are in for a yes if you ask her out.
but if one answer is no then I strongly advise yhoo to not ask her out!!
Jorsha XxxX
well just tell her or hint around just ask and if u get rejected make sure u casn still be friends!
yeas it is as long as you are a boy! if yur a girl it may ruiin your friendship and a bit wrong!but follow ur heart and if it says tell her then do it !!! you dont know if u dont ask !!!!!! let us no how it goes !!! luckybabesxxxxxxx
If you like her, ask her out. If she says no, she's an asshole because she's rejecting you.
Despite popular opinion, your friendship with her is already over, due to your new feelings. Don't worry about maintaining the friendship afterwards, if it doesn't work. It's because it won't work and it never has and never will for anyone. Anyone who tells you differently is lying to you. Your new feelings for her will either blossom into a relationship or die, it's that simple. The quicker you come to this conclusion the quicker you can get on with your new relationship or your recovery from the rejection.
What a goof to even say something like that shows your intelligence factor!
Well put, Shadow.
I hate you for continuously spelling it "yhoo". It's obviously spelled "you". Get it right, you moron.
@: smithee
smithee is right
dude, go for it. if she is hot and she likes you. ask her to go get some coffee and let her know
well I had the same probelm as you

Well..I like tis guyy named:alexandre chanpagne or w/e his last is
i told him my feelings to him
He fel the same wayy with me

Right now we been togethher for 7 months

soo dont worry about people thinkk
that is there comment
all you gonnna do what is right for you

do what is best for you

You never know what could happen
you could added me if you guyss have msn its cocrine@hotmail.com or piczo..www.x3-rock.piczo.com

..Love
Jusjus
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