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I need some adice on my looks

I think i might be ugly cause i have only 3 gf in my whole life and im 23 on monday,i have a pic in my profile callmegod i'd like some honest opinoins so i can fix my problem,ive asked out lots of chicks but i keep getting rejected so i thought it might be my looks,but i am shy so it could be that,i have trouble looking people in the eye when i talk to them.
so any honest comments
would be apprepciated
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Comments (14)
My pic is in my profile.
Nope your not ugly at all!! i think you have quirky good looks actually lol! dw bout the girlfriend thing... you are still young just go out and enjoy life!
how do u go to ur profile???
Don't trust x-princess-aimi, what would she know she's just a rodent.

The key to this is just ask more people out, a lot more, even birds that you think are out of your league. Most of the time you will be rejected because you are a bit geeky looking. Some of the time you will have sucess, trust me.
You likely hit the nail on the head. Not looking people in the eye is a red flag to many people. Also, when you appear nervous it tends to make other people feel the same way. People often imitate our behaviors without even knowing it. Focus on your people skills, I see nothing negative about your looks although as a heterosexal I'm not one who finds any guy attractive.

It is best not to ask out any girl until you have some rapport going. If a girl is approached too early, they often get nervous not knowing who they are dealing with and so decline.

So, you are not ugly, but likely lacking on people/social skills which can be learned. Practive looking people in the eye, don't stand too close to them and it will be easier. Relax your body too, there are exercises that help to reduce stress.

Nervousness is a good thing when meeting people as long as it is not overdone. Get out and have fun.
You might want to do something with that large cattapillar on your forehead.
I looked at your pic, I have to say that I see girls dating guys who are ugly as sin all the time, so I think you can rule ugly out. Sisophous is right again, so I'm just reinforcing what he said, look them in the eye, and make friends first. Don't push to hard and keep it casual at first.
You are not ugly at all.
You need to be more confident.
& the number of relationships you have really don't count, it's quality, not quantity.
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um...have u been fighting?
My last girlfriend was when i was 17 i've been single for 6 yrs
No i haven't been fighting
you look like a guy i work with.
your asking loads of girls out.
are you getting to know them before you ask them out, or are you just going up to them and asking them straight out without even knowing them properly?
maybe if your hair was different. Longer, maybe.