In love with my best friend http://isitnormal.com/story/7889/ Maybe you can try swapping' You know, swinging' Otherwise, I have no idea what you would do. An affair is not the question, especially if you don't want her husband having a reason to murder you. Or your wife to murder you or her. You might as well break off the friendship otherwise and cut off all contact, this will ease the temptation. Or just let everything get so screwed up you don't know what to do. http://isitnormal.com/story/7889/#comment-72859 2007-03-09 06:15:10 Unless you are sadomasochist with a destructive streak, back the fuck up. http://isitnormal.com/story/7889/#comment-68281 2007-02-22 13:47:17 Do you have children' If you do then stay with your wife and put all your energy into your current marriage and focus on your children. To be looking outside your marriage for comfort is extremely selfish and dead wrong. You made a committment toward your current wife when you got married. And, this woman who you feel is so special may have a lot in common with you, but she is not so special a person to pursue you knowing you are married. She too is married and doesn't seem to care about her marriage. This is what happens when people who are not marriage material, get married. If you have children, cut off all contact with this other woman. To continue your relations with the other woman will ultimately cause your own children, or hers, HARM. http://isitnormal.com/story/7889/#comment-68237 2007-02-22 12:23:04