Am I being played? http://isitnormal.com/story/7918/ Sock that ho if she makes a move though http://isitnormal.com/story/7918/#comment-188991 2007-11-04 23:28:12 He lacks a spine!(man im punning way too much) u gotta push things along hes timid is all. He cares for BOTH of u. Dont forget they have a bond 2 you no http://isitnormal.com/story/7918/#comment-188990 2007-11-04 23:26:54 ACK, my cut and paste didn't work! http://isitnormal.com/story/7918/#comment-159753 2007-09-07 09:59:15 Run. Don't walk. Run. You are overlooking something EXTREMELY important here, based on what you wrote two things stand out: So glad he told you that. Uhm did you think to ask him if he DEFENDED you to her' If he did, he should have Told you he did. If he didn't, don't you think that is a little strange, for a guy who says he cares for you' This guy IS a grown up, right' Let me see if I get this right: He has to Ask Her to get His stuff from the house' And she Might have something planned for his birthday but it is not his choice. (So you have to Wait to see if he chooses to see her or You') This guy has issues, and it sounds like you can do better. Tobra http://isitnormal.com/story/7918/#comment-159752 2007-09-07 09:58:50 ya there is something wrong there really wrong http://isitnormal.com/story/7918/#comment-106143 2007-05-13 12:08:21 ok you boyfriend hsave a stepdaugther and you are going out with him. how is this possible.or is your boyfriend cheating http://isitnormal.com/story/7918/#comment-97609 2007-04-29 14:12:24 THATS IS DAUGHTER ... if u really like this guy ... then dont ask him to ignore his daughter ... u have no choice but to deal with her ... thats what family is ALL ABOUT ! http://isitnormal.com/story/7918/#comment-81704 2007-04-01 16:50:16 if she is an adult , she should realise daddy needs a lover and back off ......she sounds like a twit .....do u really want to be with this familly cos u have to wear their shit if u stay with him cos they had him first http://isitnormal.com/story/7918/#comment-68888 2007-02-24 19:41:54 Yeah he probably enjoys the sex with his daughter a lot more so I would just give up now. http://isitnormal.com/story/7918/#comment-68764 2007-02-24 00:08:22 sounds like hes caught in the middle and doesnt want to fall out with his daughter he should make a choice and put her in her place http://isitnormal.com/story/7918/#comment-68623 2007-02-23 19:02:31 make your pussy off limits to the lad till he shapes up. he'll do what you want unless he is a closet poofter http://isitnormal.com/story/7918/#comment-68589 2007-02-23 17:32:50 Your story is quite common. Step children frequently resent people who enter into a family and compete for the attention of others. The step daughter likely resents you, considers you an intruder who is taking away attention she would be getting from your boyfriend (her father). Instead of taking her pain out on her father, she transfers the anger onto you. I have no idea what you are after in this relationship. If you are not married, you have no right to complain or dictate what this guy is doing, or what time he spends with his daughter. Because you live with him gives you no special right to what he does with his time. If you are married to him, you then have a say. You are correct, it sounds like this guy is trying to have all the pleasures without making any committment. He wants contact with both you and his daughter, with no responsibility. So, yes you are being played, but you put yourself into this position by living with him and having sex with him. Do whatever you wish, just quit complaining. You made a choice, now live with it or change it. Do not try to change the guy, he is what he is. http://isitnormal.com/story/7918/#comment-68520 2007-02-23 13:25:40 Hi there, I would be careful with this relationship if I was you. I think this guy cares alot for you but he is holding back and doesn't seem to keen to move things along. If it is full commitment that you want I think you are with the wrong man. For instance if a man was really keen to be with you he would do anything and not hesitate. As for the daughter and you I would just leave it be, you have tried and it didn't work out so let her get on with it. I feel you could do much better than this man, there is someone out there for you without no baggage and would do anything possible to make you happy, you dont sound very happy to me and very stressed. I would have a good think about all of this and if you really love this guy then you will have to be patient but if you are not that serious I would consider moving on without him, hope this helps you.. http://isitnormal.com/story/7918/#comment-68493 2007-02-23 12:06:40