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What makes a girl like you?

What makes a girl like you? Is it all looks or is it personality too? Ive heard that girls are attracticed to "bad boys" but i dont know if thats true.
Do you think it's normal?
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Lots of money and a big cock will help
Speaking from expierence I used to be attracted to "bad boys" because I thought I could help them and all they needed was love...
Wow, was that wrong, drugs and an explosive personality make for one horrible relationship.

Smart girls, don't want bad boys, they want loyal and sweet ones, I def. know that now and I have one =]
Looks will get you noticed, but being a gentleman and having a sense of humor is the clincher.
Attraction is very complex and varied. There is no formula to attraction and what turns on one girl may turn off another.

Listening to them, being respectful and making the effort to spend time with them is more often valued. They also tend not to like guys who are too passive. You can be respectful without being too passive. Most relish the role of being chased and the guy is often welcome to do the courting and make the moves.

Some people are just not attracted to others and no matter what one does it is doomed to disappointment. If you sense negative vibes, someone not reciprocating a mutual interest, it is best to drop it and move on. Don't waste time and energy on those who show a lack of interest or a lack of respect. Some things are not meant to be.
I'm a nice guy, and I have no problems with women. Then again, I'm not bad looking either.
I am attracted to men who know who they are, who have self-confidence, and who aren't putting on a show (of toughness or gentlemanliness or anything else) in order to "get the girl".
Depends on the kind of 'fish' you are trying to 'hook'
What if being themselves is being a gentleman?
@: roger49
I can't speak for anyone else, but I can tell the difference between a gentleman and someone wearing a "gentleman" mask. For instance, some men give flowers because they expect to get something in return. Other men give flowers because their date/girlfriend/wife would like them.

And in the end, if a long-term relationship develops, all masks do eventually slip away. I, for one, would rather have a relationship built on mutual respect, trust, and honesty than have a relationship built on overly-high expectations and sales pitches.

Be who you are.
Jesus. Get off it, Siso.

Th dude is askin' how to get laid.

It's all about $$$$$$.

Did you really think he was asking how to have/cultivate a long-term relationship? LOL

Kid, get lots of $$$$$$$. That will get you laid even if you don't have a big cock.

Just sayin'.

Jess
Be yourself and if they dont like the way you are then tough for them! If you pretend to be someone different then u wont be able 2 remember everything u made up and they'll find out anyways!
If u go 2 school or uni that's one of the most common places to find someone and get to know them better without going on a date!
Being gay.
For me, looks really aren't all that important, and I don't like bad boys either. I like nice, smart, friendly guys. My biggest turn off is when guys are all cocky and think they can have sex with any girl they want.
Intelligence, humour and a manly vibe about them.
To tall you the truth girls are STUPID, they don't now what's good for them.. I mean common man they are easily fooled by bad boy style or gentleman... just ACT for her in the fist 2 or 3 dates and you'll fucking nail her and do the same shit on another one... and I recommend her girlfriends because girls don't give a rat ass for there relationship if they thought they find the right guy... I hope you nail her dude...
well this coming from a girl....theres looks, theres personality, theres if the guy is rich, theres the size of cock, it could be one, or one or more, or all of the above....maybe others, i cant really think of right now
On topic: Dude being a dude I dont know anymore I thaught it was something but now Im not to sure about anything. life is just really f-ed up

Off topic: Xo-moi-oX I never thaught u cared about the size of a guys wallet b4. That also brings up another question between us.
to get a gurl 2 like you , u just have to be yourself! i fink most gals like goin 4 bad boys , well i do anyway. but i also like sweet boys with loads of money!! trust u will need alot of money haha but then agen its all about the personality nt just the looks!! even if u dont have alot of money , u couls still a get a girl to like you for just being you. xxxxxx bye hun
*could still get a* (sorri spellin)
Ok, first u look at good and confident as possible and once a girl takes the bait you have to be sweet and romantic, this makes for an excellent relationship.
Yeah looks are good, but personality is better. If your really good looking but a complete bastard she really wont want to know, unless shes od that way. In which case steer clear mate. Dont always talk about yourself all the time and make sure you include her.
cash looks and a big cock (hahaha thats me)pluss youve gota treet her right like taking it out her mouth when she says shes guna throw up or cnt breathe