oral sex
I've been witn my partner six years now and she will not give me oral sex.We have a good and varied sex life (and during foreplay is happy for me to go down on her).I've tried everything I can think of to encourage her to try, but to no avail,
any ideas???
If you are clean, it could be she experienced something unpleasant in her past and the act brings back bad memories. Perhaps someone forced her to do such, against her will and so she since avoids it. Many people don't like to share bad experiences and just live with it privately.
Try taking a shower with her. The flow of water may help. You may also want to consider a private hot tub if you have access to one. Water often has a relaxing and erotic effect.
Last option is to suggest she see a sex therapist to sort out what is bothering her. She may get upset for you bringing it up, but the worst she likely can do is refuse.