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I've been witn my partner six years now and she will not give me oral sex.We have a good and varied sex life (and during foreplay is happy for me to go down on her).I've tried everything I can think of to encourage her to try, but to no avail,

any ideas???
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Don't get upset but are you clean? Just before engaging in any sexual activity, everyone should take a shower or a bath.

If you are clean, it could be she experienced something unpleasant in her past and the act brings back bad memories. Perhaps someone forced her to do such, against her will and so she since avoids it. Many people don't like to share bad experiences and just live with it privately.

Try taking a shower with her. The flow of water may help. You may also want to consider a private hot tub if you have access to one. Water often has a relaxing and erotic effect.

Last option is to suggest she see a sex therapist to sort out what is bothering her. She may get upset for you bringing it up, but the worst she likely can do is refuse.
Sisophous pretty much covered it all, but have you even tried asking her why she won't?
the answer is that she doesn't want to and should not be coerced or tricked into doing anything she doesn't feel she is ready to do. if you like her and respect her you would back off of her about this. If not, get yourself someone who will do what you want an leave her alone about it.
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one day wake her up with ur dick in her face. she'll get the point.
why don't you get flavoured condoms she might like it then
yep the first comment is probably right, she's probably had bad experiences before. Maybe she thinks she doesn't know how, or maybe she's been embarrassed about trying before. just find out what is bothering her about it as a root cause and go from there.
Cut her off. No dick for her.
Well, 6 years and nothing yet? You probably should know by that it's not gonna happen. I mean, what's the big deal? If you've lasted 6 years without it, I'm sure it's not on your top list. She probably wouldn't know what to do and you'd have to teach her and just save yourself a fight. If she wanted to do it, believe me, she would have by now. Sorry, don't mean to burst your bubble.
Then shell go eles ware for sex.
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