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Is this guy for real?

I've been seeing this guy for about 6 weeks. I'm a virgin, and we haven't even had vaginal intercourse, only oral and fingering and that sort of thing.
The thing is he's already told me he loves me, and that he wants to meet my family and spend the next 60-70 years together. I'm a little weirded out by his intensity, but I also think its sweet. How do I know if this guy is genuine and not just tryin to get in my pants? Is it normal to express those types of sentiments so early in a relationship? Is he a potential stalker?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (22)
Tell him you are saving yourself for marriage and see his reaction.
This guy is either very immature or a loon. You hardly know someone after just six weeks. Love develops over time, not in six weeks. Infatuation or lust can take place in six weeks. And, if a guy is young, heterosexual, and a normal functioning male, he WANTS TO GET IN YOUR PANTS. Do not fault him for that.

It takes roughly 1-1/2 years to get to really know someone. The words love he expressed to you, he would repeat with many other girls and likely has already.

Do what you wish, but keep your guard up, this guy doesn't seem to be playing with a full deck.
He may not be trying to get into your pants, but he certainly has some issues you should be worried about. He's probably inexperienced and doesn't know what he's doing. Unless of course, he's trying to get into your pants.
seems like its all a bit rushed & sudden saying those things after only 6 weeks but he may just be a serious guy & a harmless 1 but its definetly way too early too be even thinking about marriage its up 2u wether you wanna carry on with a guy like that its gotta be yr decision
Glad Im not you. He must be retarded.
No, he's not a damned stalker. Give the guy a break, it sounds like he really likes you.
I bet the reason he hasent really fucked you is because he doesnt know how to

and hes really desparate, so hes going to be a leech to you forever. and youl be stuck with a eunich forever
Try and explain to him that its sorta cute but fr him to just try not to get to attactched to you like that i mean love is something that really does take time, and i dont think thats what hes feeling he takes it just as a deep kinda crush but that doesnt mean he just wants to get into your pants i just think hes inexpericed and doesnt want to lose you.
Sounds like a genuine gentlmen! If ou don't want him send him my way!!!LOL..welll how is he lmao
did u suck his dick real good as if it were a chocobar. "Hey sucking a mans cock makes any normal woman fell great and so does drilling a jackhammer into the pussy far below untill u have reached the nadir. did you know that apart from the protein and gum that u have consumed the protein might also have some pests which can make u fucked ur whole life. So before u suck put some butter or honey in it.Theres no certainty of Such method but it is followed round across the globe.
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tell him that if he is serious about marriage, you want to save yourself for it. If you never hear from him again, or if he trys to talk you out of saving yourself for marriage, you'll know he's a fake.

If he sticks around, the question remains..Is he a stalker? To find that out, break up with him. See how he reacts. If he says anything like "if I can't have you, NOONE will!!", then you have a nutter on your hands, and restaining orders are appropriate.
Didn't you just say you didn't have vaginal intercourse if he was trying to get into your pants it would have already happened!!!
I think the guy sounds kinda sweet. Like back when people udes to vourt. Noe these days it's all this friends with benefits garbage I thik the guy really likes her and wants to get to know her in all aspects first.
one way is to tell him you need time to "grow" and you wanna take a "break" from the relationship for a while if he reacts negitivly hes not sincere if he reacts in a calm supportive way then he really does love you...

-Devin O.B.G.Y.N(Gyno)
STALKER!!!!
If you really want to know if he actually does love you, ask him what your favorite things ae or when your birthay is and your dreams and fears. he ought to know these things if he wants to spend the next 100 years with you. I understand if you're weirded out because it's been 6 weeks. Give it some time and if he doesn't like it, dump his ass and tell him to suck it. Good luck!
the only way you will know... well is like by dating him for 3 more months... if he can survive without having sex with u then he is'nt just trying to get in ur pantz
ok what you do is put on you SEXIEST outfit go somewhere public and wen theres not many people put ur hand in his pants and start 2 massage his bits if he says "not in public" then hes serious. if he just lets u carry on till it goes hard, carry on then yank down his trousers and push him into a crowd of ppl =D xxx
oh and by the way u ARE still a virgin until u hav had full sexual intercourse so ignore that uva person ^^^^^
he's trying to get into your pants.
well i've dated alota guyz and all of them said that they wanted to spend their life time wid me and get married, and all of them turned out to be jerks :)and if ur a virgin, atleast do ur first time with someone u love and not some guy u've met 6 weeks ago. and as Nodo_TheRanter said, tell him ur saving urself for marriage and see his reaction :)