I've been seeing this guy for about 6 weeks. I'm a virgin, and we haven't even had vaginal intercourse, only oral and fingering and that sort of thing.
The thing is he's already told me he loves me, and that he wants to meet my family and spend the next 60-70 years together. I'm a little weirded out by his intensity, but I also think its sweet. How do I know if this guy is genuine and not just tryin to get in my pants? Is it normal to express those types of sentiments so early in a relationship? Is he a potential stalker?
It takes roughly 1-1/2 years to get to really know someone. The words love he expressed to you, he would repeat with many other girls and likely has already.
Do what you wish, but keep your guard up, this guy doesn't seem to be playing with a full deck.
and hes really desparate, so hes going to be a leech to you forever. and youl be stuck with a eunich forever
If he sticks around, the question remains..Is he a stalker? To find that out, break up with him. See how he reacts. If he says anything like "if I can't have you, NOONE will!!", then you have a nutter on your hands, and restaining orders are appropriate.
-Devin O.B.G.Y.N(Gyno)