I am 4o years man , maried 8 years ago , have kids , I like my wife t6o be hot , dating other men , sleep with more men ,...
I told her many times ,tryed with to accept my idia ,to date other men ,do anything she might like , .. but she refused ,.. please help to convince her to accept my idia.
Perhaps you mean "idea"?
You illiterate clown.
However in the interests of good taste I suggest that if you want your wife to sleep with other men and to basically become a whore instead of a loving commited wife, then I suggest you get a lobotomy.