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Me and my girlfriend have been dating 8 months into our relationship, we now have agreed to break up just recently, everything in the beggining seemed so perfect when we were together, but our only problem now that 6 months in we would start to argue, almost all the time, and we are both very very stubbourn.. and it has been like this till now, it seemed like we were competeing for the win over the argument most of the time... anyway, my reason for ending our relationship was because of how often i didnt see her anymore, because she goes off with her best friend(who is a girl)to either party or do somthing way too often than she would spend time with me at all.. but now that were broken up i feel so shitty cause im not with her, everything i think of in the past that we did together all seems like bull shit now, cause i was so commited to her that i regret it now. I basically changed for her and now all that bull shit is over... i hate it and as much as i dont realize how much its over, i feel like im just in a dream and its going to end, but even when im dreaming, im with her and its the best feeling in the world and i dont want to wake up.. i want to be with her again horribly, in the begging she was one of the best things that has happened to me, and i knew her since kindergarden and went out with her senior year, but now highschool has ended recently, and i feel like i need her or somthing... as much as i hate her now, on an equal level i still have strong feelings for her.. how long do i have to wait for feelings like this shit to go away??
Do you think it's normal?
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Anonymous
2006-08-05 08:04:44
And it does take time, sometimes weeks, or months. Best thing to do is keep busy, work, find a new hobby, volunteer, hang out with your buds. Just keep busy!

BTW: Never change for a girl, be who you are!
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Ladybug (3106)
2006-08-05 21:57:00
It's true, you will get over this pain. It can take a long time though.

Get out and be with other people--preferably new people who don't know your ex. High school has ended, it's a good time to move on in your life. Move, get a new job, meet new people. New routines will help to break through your dispare. Soon you'll see that there's a whole big life out there waiting to be lived.
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kayleigh (3321)
2006-08-22 10:15:57
dont worry you will get over it eventually , its painful and it takes a while but it soon goes.i was with my ex for 4 years and we broke up and although it took months im over him so trust me , the pain will go away soon!try and do new things so your mind gets put at ease! it took me more than 6 months to get over my ex but i did it, and if i can then anybody can! gd luck hun!
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lizaann1967 (3694)
2006-09-11 23:51:16
it helps to talk about it, cry about it, read a book called it's called a breakup because it's broken. and you know that this will pass. i was so broken up about my exboyfriend and now i'm married so who knows what life holds maybe someone better.
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UnKnOwNn (3848)
2006-09-28 16:49:17
anonymous is right....it might take second minutes hours days weeks months years decades probably centurys 2......but dont feel bad...if u think she still likes u and u like her try to get her back....
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Jesus-FaLLeN (4652)
2006-12-19 09:23:49
screw your best friend


fuk his brains out
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mindfreak (4990)
2006-12-28 22:26:52
youtube. wait what?
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santi (5734)
2007-02-07 03:12:52
till you find a replacement
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fairandknowledgeable (7006)
2007-03-28 18:54:01
@: Anonymous
Until you start banging more chicks than one... if you dont get over this and you guys get back together she will always know she can run off.... and then that feeling will come back of torment while she goes and has fun. Only it will take her a long time to know what she is doing to you... and when she does realize how horrible she is it will be too late. You will be full of hate and be the worst version of yourself. If you work for somthing that is beter than her, eventually she will fail and you will take the lead... until then you are in her dust my friend.
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iluvher (7847)
2007-04-22 02:06:45
y do you need to agree to break up usually doesn't it just happen???
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