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why are they sooo stupid???

why are guys such jerks and treat girls like crap?? why do girls go and treat men like crap? i dont understand why people are such jerks. seriously get over yourself im so sick of the jerks that i know. no offense to the guys but most guys are perverted nasty and need help because im sooo sick of the nasty things you say to girls. most of us dont like that if you havnt noticed. but then there are the girls who will go for anything a guy will give her but most of us are better then that so why????? answer me why? (and dont you stupid boiis come on here and say retarted things cause im p.o. and go head press the button and i will blow at you ok!
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I don't get it either, I think it comes down to shear inexperience. Someone said earlier on one of the posts that girls go for the bad boys because they think they can help them. I like to think I'm a nice guy, and I'm appalled by some of the stuff women put up with from their boyfriends. Maybe it's a power trip, I don't know, it really doesn't make much sense to me.
i also agree with both of you guys. but there are some nice guys out there that would actually treat a girl nice.
Roger touched on it.

Many girls like to go after guys who have problems to feel a sense of power and control. They like the thrill of "fixing" a guy who often is desirable in appearance but lacking in maturity/responsibilities. These girls tend to lack self confidence to carry on a relationship with a guy who does not have issues, and is responsible and caring. So, the girls choose a problem guy despite knowing it is prone to failure.

I also disagree with your premise in stating that guys are jerks or girls moreover treat guys like crap.

There are plenty of those people that in fact fit these descriptions, but it is everyones responsibility to pick and choose wisely. No one is pointing a gun to your head to have a relationship with a jerk, it is your decision and get what you desire.

Very early on while dating, there are red flag warning signs if something is seriously wrong with a person. It could be rudeness, aggressiveness, insensitivity, selfishness, manipulativeness, etc. etc. If you see such warning signs, do not ignore them, do not dismiss them. Instead simply avoid the person again and politely say no thank you if they ask to see you again.

Simple enough, no excuses for anyone.

CHOOSE WISELY!!!!!
A lot of guys are horrible.
I get p*ssed off daily at the stupid redneck boys at my school who go around and treat girls like sh*t and call at the nice guys fags and it's ridiculous.
But there are good ones out there.
I found one and you will too =]
@: Breezy
duhhh i know there are nice guys this girl i know has prob and im sick of random guys coming up to me and treating me like crap even when im not dating them and im not friends with them i know how to choose and i dont date so there is no reason to choose right know so yeah there.
Well, im a girl. And I must say, this post is retarded as you put it. Becauseee.. it's life, it's not fair, and get over it.

Angel
I though it was because some birds are a bit think.
that should be thick, how stupid must I be?
All women are coniving bitches an hos.
Really? Even your mother?
@: Bobert
ME MOTHERS A SAINT YA FUCKING BASTARD! I WAS BIRTHED BY IMMACULATE CONCEPTION.

All others are bitches and hos.
Alright, I just wanted that cleared up. I won't hear a bad word spoken against your mother.
"most guys are perverted nasty and need help"

I'm perverted... and I probably need help!!! But NASTY??? Come on, that's not fair... lol

Seriously, there are decent people out there - and you must believe that to an extent, since you still associate with people. Best of luck finding someone who's actually nice. THEY DO EXIST!!!
lol yeah i know there are really good people and if your willing to admit to it then you have to be some kinda nice right? see there you go there is somthin nice about you lol.
i don't even really want to start. some boys, the ones who are rude and crude, are so annoying and hopeless. but girls can do the stupidest stuff too. There are boys who call me bitch because I won't talk to them after they talk about my ass or whatever. Maybe I am a bitch a little but I have more self respect than they do. but I have friends who go with the jerkiest guys because they're "cool" and I don't blame the guys for being rude to them then because they made a choice. I still have three years of school left. I really hope things get better
unfortunatley in a guys world nice guys realy do finish last.... you complain about guys being jerks but do you realy give the quiet kid in the back of the class a chance??? probaly not and those are the nice guys who would treat you good... it sucks but girls respond best to guys that ignore them or treat them bad regaurdless of what you might say so my advice dont go for the popular guy or a guy with to much confidence and youl do fine
@: jondoe
oh dont worrie i dont go for the oh im so popular and so fantasic oh look at me guys i do go for the im hiding cause im shy guys. but this stuff has happened 2 me 1 time and iw as pretty upset but there are nice guys and there are sweet guys and the hidden ones can be bad too they just hide it until you open them up so yeah im not the type of girl who go's for those guys srry to disapoint you peoples
Yea i agree .. no one ever said that its ok for men to harrass women .. by constantly saying dirty things to them ...or like when am walking and cars stop and men begin to flirt wit me .. HEy no one ever said u can do that ... Plus Guys ... Youll never hook up wit a girl like that .. Unless the Chicks really really retarted
@: Omofi
or a really big slut and will go for anything but girls do it to guys too so we are in the wrong too
one difference between men and women is that when women flirt to men men like it when men flirt to women women hate it.
I know, men are so teasers. That's why I went back to girls.
@: Amy1991
Lesbo
Some are weak-minded enough to give in to their bodily cravings.
@: puffu
you knowyou just dissed yourslef right???? and that this was a thing from forever ago???
Yeah, those fucking jerks.
Yeah. I hate them too.