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im going out with this guy and i really like him, but he's kinda a bad kisser...ok not kinda but a REALLY bad kisser. i dont wanna break up with him or anything but i hate to kiss him, and i love kissing. i feel really bad an i dont want to say anything cause it might hurt him..what do you think i should do?
Do you think it's normal?
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You can teach him what you like, I mean exactly too, do not be vague. Don't put it to him in a way that you are correcting him or fixing something. He will become defensive or will become offended if you become critical or say something condescending.

Instead tell him you "would like to show you what I like". This way he is more prone to listen and not take offense. If a guy truly wants to please his girl he will listen and carefully.

You have to walk a fine line, engage him as a private matter as to what you like (not all females), and be carefull not to shoot him down and say anything negative. Say what you like, not what he does wrong.

If both men and women took this approach, it would make a big, positive difference in their pleasure.

Guys or girls for the most part will accept instruction and have no problem with it if one is able to communicate to them in a respectful manner that is not negative.

Good luck! Please let us know if it made a difference after you gave him a chance to absorb it. I'd bet it will.
i don't mean to change the topic. but i give you congrats. you have helped alot of ppl man. if only more ppl cared and helped out others more often.
Thanks for your kind words, I appreciate it. I try to help.

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give him kissing lessons i may be embarrasing to tell him but it may be for the better
tell him you wont have sex unless he learns to kiss you!
Listen to sisophous. He is always right.
(im the person who wrote the story)lolthganx for all you'r help guys, but i dicided to dump him, not for that reason but because hes an idiot
Why don't you tell him to practice kissing at the back of his hand? I used to da that allllllll the time before my first kiss.