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Getting a girlfriend.

I know I sound like a loser posting this, but oh well, you don't know me. I would really like to have a girlfriend, but I'm horrible with women. I don't know how to approach them. People say just be yourself, I don't know. Can I please get some advice. And keep all those insults to minimum PLEASE!! thanks
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Yes, you are a loser for posting that.

Women are giant scary mean creatures who are only out to make fun of your small penis!!!

Really though, They are just people like you, if you find one that interests you trying saying "HI!". What in the world could be the worst that can happen? "Fuck Off"? Big deal, move onto the next.
I'm sorry bud, but the best advice you're going to get is put yourself out there and be yourself.
Try chatting with them the same way you would if you were talking to a guy. They may not share your interests, but you can always talk about school, teachers, exams.

I found in college, everyone has one thing in common when it came to education, i.e......courses taken, teachers, assignments, who to avoid, who to take, pitfalls, perks, etc., etc.

Once people get used to talking to you, it becomes easier over time and friendships develop. Don't take it personally if some show a lack of interest in talking, some may just be very shy or private. Simply avoid those who are cold and move on to others.

People for the most part are very friendly and welcome conversation.
Okay, I'm a girl, so listen.
You sound like a sweet guy. If you really want a girlfriend, just start talking to girls. It may take some practice.
You don't have to flirt at first, just talk. Smile a lot and look straight into her eyes sometimes. Girls love that. After that it will just kind of flow for you.
If you are timid around girls, just try to talk to them. Dont be as hyper as you are with your guy friends: be gentle.
I hope that helps. If you need more of my advice, you are more than welcome to email me at leahsparrow@yahoo.com, but don't get any ideas.
Try 2 find girls that may have the same interests. There are some girls out there who enjoy the same things guys do. No there not all dikes or tomboys neither. All girls don't think the same were not always about gossip, our clothes and hair. Some girls can hold regular conversations not all girls are weak and dumb as stereotype's like 2 show. Long as your relaxed and calm and don't try 2 use any bullshit pick up lines you should have it easy. I no you might have a specific type of girl you may like, but try not 2 be so specific about size, race, or height. Try 2 be opened minded. Remember dating is about finding someone you would like 2 spend time with and later on develop something long term. It's also about just having FUN!!!
find an ugly chick to go out with then get to know her and about women, then dump her forsomeone hot
thats classy
Good idea.
just walk up to a girl and start finger f*cking her. that always works.
Basically, did you ever have any friends that were girls, but you didn't date? Progessively move from that stage to the next and to the next until you marry her (if nothing fails) and just be yourself, don't try to put on the man's man or be a lady's man (unless you want to) and don't go in sniffing for some sex, some women can detect that really easily and they'll turn you down.

I guess...

I'm one of those girls that don't feel I have to be untouchable or give that attitude, some gals do...

They miss out on 60-year marriages and lack of love, maybe? LOL.
Maybe you should LISTEN to the be yourself part...
@mirado123
LOL ur a cock who should be shot
and mate talking to a girl is easy fair enough im a girl but im also Bi-sexual and i chat up girls all the time just be urself and be easy going and it will come easily and you'll see that its not that hard :)
BEST PICK UP LINE EVER.. GO TO A CHICK AND SAY "NICE SHOES WANNA FUCK!"


WORKS almost EVERY TIME :D
WHy do you want a girlfriend ? Is it just for sex ? get a hooker, they are cheaper and less hassle
Find eccentric talk-a-lot girls they fill up most of the conversation. Add 'really?' and no way! to every other sentence