Never been in a relationship

I'm a 30 year old woman and although I've dated quite a bit, slept with a handful of men (11) and have a lot of friends, I've yet to be in a committed relationship. All of my friends have and so I think I'm a bit abnormal....or am I normal? Men who have really liked me, I wasn't into and vise versa.

Your thoughts?

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GermanTrooper (6302)

2007-03-04 10:31:35

well im no exspert but.... I my self have been in this dilena before, but to me its more of a love to be single kind of thing. If no one u have dated has worked into ur seriuos likings then don't feel bad. U will find someone eventualy........ or in worsts case u will stay single and have good friends. but about 1 in a million stay only good friends with everyone they know. So don't give up and find the one u want. And please don't rush it, it will come.

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DrSham (5677)

2007-03-04 10:55:42

You need more sexual satisfaction.
Once you've been humped into heavenly pleasure you'll soon want more from that gentleman

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sisophous (3738)

2007-03-04 12:17:09

Interesting story. There likely is a reason why you have not been in a lasting relationship which I can't pinpoint. Did any of the guys ever mention to you their reason for moving on? Did you sleep with them too early on? Are you possessive and did you try to control them? Do you take care of yourself on the outside and the inside? Are you needy or independent? Needy woman can drive a guy up the wall.

There likely is a common denominator that explains why you have not found a match.

As far as sleeping with guys, it can be the kiss of death to a relationship. Once guys get their fill of sex with a woman, they tend to move on and prefer something new. Variety is the spice of life and unfortunately, their interest will wane over time.

Bottom line, if you are happy that is what counts. Many people in relationships are miserable or planning to terminate them.

If comfortable approaching your friends, ask for their opinion as to whether you are making any mistakes or lacking in some things. Often it takes someone from the outside to give you an honest assessment of ourselves.

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leomichael (6366)

2007-03-05 11:01:06

sorry to be blunt but are you ugly?
If you are they probably use you then move on.
The truth is a guy wants a pretty girl on his arm not a pig. If your a pig then you can expect to get dumped time and again - sorry to be truthful about it and I realise that it sucks for you.... If your pretty then its another reason (maybe your too easy) - but that was my first thought reading your problem

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ANALAREA51 (6329)

2007-03-06 01:48:45

try having sex and relating to stuffed animals and pillows, it works for me...

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_the_masterer_ (6730)

2007-04-27 21:57:41

FAG ALERT!!!!!!!!!11

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Steve3D (9523)

2007-08-03 19:20:57

Guys give love to get sex and girls give sex to get love.