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That is a personal choice, not for others to decide. Unless your boyfriend is bound by some religious code of higher morals, I find it rather odd how your boyfriend of over one year can support you in your quest to remain a virgin until marriage.

If a guy is a true heterosexual, not a slave to any religion, he wants to get into a woman's pants and would not tolerate over one year of dating a woman and not getting any. So, I have to question his manhood or his motives, it is very odd behavior.

Now, as to having sex, many, many guys will leave a relationship if they are getting a lot of sex from their woman. They grow tired of it, bored of the same person over time and desire something new.

So, basically it is double edged sword, only you can make the decision.

From what I've seen, it is ok to have sex prior to marriage, but to limit the occurences and you must be very disciplined to do so. This way the enticement remains and the guys do not get bored.

what does "heterosexual" mean? not to sound stupid...

No problem, a heterosexual is a person who is "sexually" attracted to the opposite sex.

My mistake, if you are the original poster of this story, dismiss what I posted. Age 14 is way too young to be having sex. Your body may be ready, but your mind is not emotionally ready. So, don't have sex.

Come on, you should have recognized by now that the average age for posters here is 14.

except me. lol! oh, & dirty cabbie. LOL!

NO!!!!

I'm 14 and I know what heterosexual means.
haha Just had to say that...=P

Oh, and to answer your question.
If you really are 14 I suggest you wait because your probably going to regret not waiting in the end. I know hormones can get the best of people...but I think you should consider this more. Do you really want to give it all up to him?

By the way, you should change your location to California.
Then it would be Dani California! =D

lets him shag youu! wait till marriage! ha!

no dont do it. trust me when i say if you do, WHEN you guys break up not IF youll find someone else youll want to "shag" and sleep with them too. and so on and so on. it is better to measure ten times and cut once that vice versa. Once you start you cant stop! You have made a very rare and personal decision to wait! When you meet a man who truly respects that he will be your husband. Screw till youre blue in the face but i promise you, if you shag this guy in 3 more months youll hate him, break up and be doing the monkey dance with someone else.

thats totally up to you but if you keep messing around like that the decision is going to be harder to keep. ..you might have and accidental slip in..ha ha see what i did there?slip up/ slip in?

EVERYONE READ THIS...
He dumped me b/c he was cheating on me with his ex GF from the summer. he finally dumped her and tried to make things up with me by asking me out again. but i said no and we are only friends. but good news is that him and i didn't get any further than one time of foreplay and making out and i am still a virgin. but some times i look back and see that i really regret NOT having sex with him. should i feel bad?

no..feel good about what you do for yourself and not for others