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Confused on touchy subject

well i am going to begin with a brief history of myself. i am 17 and i had my last girlfriend/sexual relation about 2 years ago. ever since then (had a bad experience with her) i havent had another girlfriend or sexual relation. its like breaking up with her has killed my ways with women.

i still love women, i still fantasize about women and girls i know, i still jack off to women.

except lately, i have begun to notice guys and find them attractive. not sexually attractive, but more of appreciative look on them. its causing some confusion for me, because i had never noticed or cared about the appearance of other dudes in the past.

i can confidently say that i am not bisexual or homosexual, as i have no desire for male sexual relations, masturbating or sucking a dick, and especially not sticking my d*** in an a**hole (hell i wouldnt even do that to a girl... how u supposed to fit it in that small a**hole!?!?)

do you people think this is normal? perhaps a normal stage of my development?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (11)
sisophous (3738)
2007-03-04 14:19:51
Your story is somewhat confusing. If you find guys attractive in a platonic way such as socializing that is understandable. Perhaps you were hurt emotionally by this female but never from a guy and thus find comfort in your same sex.

Men and women are also very different, our brains do not function the same way. You likely find more in common with your same sex which puts you at ease. Just my opinion/guess.
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freedomsoldier88 (6360)
2007-03-14 07:08:02
First off...you're completely gay.

Second...you should really consider about sticking it in some girls' pooper, it's really nice and warm and quite tight.

Third...you're in denial, and therefor gay as a little songbird.
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roomy (5559)
2007-03-20 22:51:22
No you're not gay at all. What you're saying is that you're noticing males in an aesthetic sense. Like the way one appreciates a statue or other piece of artwork. There's nothing gay about that you can be straight and take notice of the male form a thing of beauty. That's kinda way ancient greece gets its rep as a gay,not that homosexuality wasn't practiced, but also beyond the few gay individuals the culture appericated the male body. The same way men appreciate machines or architecture. So I wouldn't worry about it.
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Omofi (7083)
2007-04-04 00:37:40
@: roomy
if your not sexually attracted to men ... then ur not gay ... plus it NORMAL for many of us to question our sexual refrence
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Shavemeslowly (5177)
2007-04-04 00:46:58
Its normal to question your sexuality at that age, vey normal. Just go with the flow and trust your intuition.
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mischiefairy (7321)
2007-04-10 23:57:50
im not a lesbian...yet if find women very attractive. i find that the human figure can be a complete work of art, and i catch myself staring to see the curves and lines and different shapes it makes. sometimes i will randomly draw the person..he is totally normal..maybe he is staring at the men like the statue of David. its a wonderful masterpiece, much like many human forms in the world
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babyangel2580 (1623)
2007-04-11 19:40:33
most guys like a small hole..

now im confused
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LFC_999 (8542)
2007-05-25 23:12:14
yes its normal for a fag but its ok its all normal these days so don't worry about it if you suck c*ck its fine im sure your dad will be disapointed but your mum will love it.
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Neuroticism (9109)
2007-06-29 14:41:23
What Sisophous said! But you could easily be swayed into being bi, you're not on the tip of it, but with some ignorance cleared up on your part, you could be.

Not that you would want it...
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Duncanism (7217)
2007-07-21 01:27:28
@: sisophous
you are thinking about this WAY to much its simple its not that he is gay but that he is finding that in guys he sees most likely things that he wants for himself. not that he wants to have sex with then but wants the boyd and appreence that they have on his own body... or that he just finds them attractive and there is nothing wrong with that!!!
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insane_pyromaniac (9501)
2007-07-24 09:23:59
well maybe youre just on a before stage to being bi
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