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Stop masturbating?

Is it normal that a guy at my age (21) still masturbates daily? I find it quite annoying that it contributes to my low grades in school or the fact that it makes my brain sensitive over time, and increases self sufficiency which lowers my chances to have a relationship with a girl. I tried stopping the habbit of masturbation and I find it really hard to do after so many years of practicing it. I managed to go 5 days maximum without masturbation and it made me feel a different person. There were good things about it and there were bad things too. My physical and mental powers were unbelivable and I get more flirts everyday. But on the other hand I get many negative thaughts for some reason. Everytime I manage to go at least 3 days without masturbation, I become a negative person, as if my soul is dead inside. I heard that sport helps but sport requires time and effort and I'm a busy student. I can't possibly go on forever without masturbation. Any tips on what to do in order to stop masturbation because I long for those incredible powers???!!
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (17)
ultramel (6409)
2007-03-07 06:46:10
dude, masturbating is normal. wen it starts affecting ur social life it becomes a problem. read a book or take up knitting if u think ur over doing it.
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callmegod (6066)
2007-03-08 22:12:48
Thats good so i am normal in that regards.
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callmegod (6066)
2007-03-08 22:13:43
I wank a shit load.
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88chriz88 (6458)
2007-03-09 21:39:38
masterbation is good for u and most ppl do it, even old ppl, and i dnt see how it affects ur mental health at all npot unless thats all u think about all day, other then dat wank as much as u like its good for ya and dnt effect metnal and social life unless u lock ur self in ur room all day wanking,
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tenerifeguy (6552)
2007-03-15 08:23:34
absolutly normal, i wank 3 times a day...
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mymunchkins (5639)
2007-03-23 00:54:54
Masturbation is normal. Women masturbate too, you know. It's a normal human function. It is difficult when sex is on your mind 24/7. Do it every other day for a while. It's not like smoking - you shouldn't just give it up. Just make it less of a priority.
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fairandknowledgeable (7006)
2007-03-28 19:37:13
@: mymunchkins
IF YOU STOP ALL TOGETHER IT IS STILL OK TO DO IT WITH SOMEONE YOU CONSIDER A SOLE MATE. BUT THE SEX SHOULD BE FOR THE PARTNER NOT YOU. STOP DOING CERTAIN THINGS FOR YOURSELF BECAUSE THAT IS LIKE AN EXECUTIVE CUTTING CORNERS BY WORKING IN THE MAIL ROOM. IF YOU GET OFF BECAUSE YOU ARE SERVICEING SOMEONE ELSES NEEDS YOU WONT LOSE "YOUR POWER"..... SORRY THAT IS HOW IT WORKS
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mymunchkins (5639)
2007-03-29 20:16:36
@: fairandknowledgeable
Do you mean it's NOT okay to like sex? You should pleasure someone, as long as it's not yourself? What dark ages do you live in?
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StrawberryNINJA (7160)
2007-04-04 01:35:54
Where do you live?
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dragoon188 (5130)
2007-04-09 23:33:16
daily? ouch, I havnt masturbated in 9 days (10 if u include the last time i masturbated)
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feelssogood (8676)
2007-06-03 12:52:08
none of those things are true..if you have a sex drive satisfy it because if you dont it will only stress you out and generally decreas your outlook on lige
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carcass (9452)
2007-07-19 11:24:00
you will lose your hair if you do it alot!!!
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comalies (6298)
2007-08-08 00:51:17
i have the answer...get a gf...and get laid! jeez
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Potato (7428)
2007-08-08 01:07:32
masturbating can cause all that?
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edawg77 (10217)
2007-09-15 00:40:43
DONT SWEAT IT! IM 13 and I CANT KICK THE HABIT! IM LOOKIN FORWARD TO LONG EJACULATION-FILLED YEARS! SO, IF YOU STOP WORRYING, MAYBE YOULL ENJOY IT MORE :)
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wvwarrior (13435)
2008-02-12 14:56:34
ok we're out of the 1950's masturbation is fine and orgasms are good for your heart.

I am a 23yr old in a healthy relationship with loads of sex and still jack off sometimes multiple times daily. I know guys arleady having erection problems at our age so we should be thankful.

The only negative facts i have ever read is that it can decrease your time if you just jack off real fast. You can actually use this as trainig for better sex.

check out www.jackinworld.com for good infor
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fence (15553)
2008-09-05 05:22:47
i kinda know how you feel...i think a good way to reduce it is to avoid boredom at all costs...thats why they say sports is good...but you could do what you want....hobbies are good..
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