My sister who is 10 has learned all about masterbating and penises and sex. Is that NORMAL!!?!?!?!? I mean, what the hell is wrong with her? To tell you the truth, I had sex when I was 10 too. Should I tell hre about sexor do you think she's ok on finding by herself?
To ask her questions however, you have to build a close bond with her. You can't just ignore her half the time and then randomly decided that you need to ask her if her and her little boyfriend have kissed yet. If you got THAT route, she'll fight you and probably rebel.
Anyhow, good luck! Hope she grows up educated and safe and all that good stuff. ^_^