try to find somone without kids

I'm a female and I'm almost 20. I understand where your coming from, sometimes I meet some pretty nice guys but they have a kid or 2. I try not 2 judge people but it turns me off for some reason. You are 2 young for dealing with that kind of situation if you don't have 2. Ask her what she wants, also tell her what you want be forward don't beat around the bush.

More great advice, this time from Shunti and dragoon.

Communication is key. It is better to be upfront and make clear what you both want early on. It sounds like you only want sex. She has a child and may want the same or something more lasting and long term. Most women raising a child want a lot more than just casual sex.

Be discreet while you ask her what she is after in meeting a guy. Since sex is your main interest, not a long term commitment, then tell her but don't use the exact word. Say instead you are "looking just to have fun". She will interpret what you say easily and be less prone to get offended if it is not something she seeks. I always think it best to find out early on whether the woman and I share similar interests/goals. If not, there is nothing lost with no time wasted and you both can go your own ways if not a good match for one another.

If you do get close to her, show caution, she already has one child and is more prone to get pregnant again, whether intentionally or not keep your guard up at all times. DO NOT take her word for it if she claims to be using the pill for birth control. No birth control is 100% effective and you risk being a father with a child to support. Remember that!!!!!! It could be the path to hell.

Go out with her and ask her what she wants.

I doubt she just wants a fuck buddy. I would think that a girl in her situation (the kid) is looking for a serious relationship, leading toward marriage.

Sounds to me like you need to grow up. I'm 20 and have a 3 week old daughter and I am married. It sounds to me like you're afraid of responsiblity and commitment. You should leave this one alone if that's the case. A single mom is most likely looking for someone to help raise her child, then again, women do mature much faster than men. If you aren't ready for commitment or responsiblity, then go screw some 18 year old girl just out of highschool or a single chick who's still in the party mode. Because this seems where you are most likely stuck at still.

If it's not gonna go anywhere, don't go out with her or f**k her. It won't do either of you any good.

Nothing wrong with meeting her though - just stop thinking of the contents of her pants and start thinking of her as a human being. Tell your friend that you'll meet this person, but not with an eye to going out - just to meet up.

Who knows? You might even change your mind on the whole responsibility issue. That happened to me - my girlfriend has a kid and I never thought before I met her that I would be prepared to commit that deeply... But whaddya know? I was, and I'm very glad I realised that.

she is an evil bitch seeking you and other men like a parasite she want to sit at homeall day while you work for her and buy her a bunch of unneeded crap stay away
shes a suckubus.

ninjagude is a dip**it. That women mature faster than men is such bull**it. Ask anyone who has been to college and met any sorority girls-they are completely immature tools-instead of stayed at home like a chump and popped a kid out at 20. Way to go ninjadude.
Regarding your question, it is normal to fantasize about a MILF, but do not try anything on her unless she makes the first move or you will regret it deeply.

well here's how it works with girls, we like you to make a move and be confident. if she said she thought you were hot once than you've just got to go for it. trust me, we like our guys entirely confident! (though not cocky, duh [which IS a fine line, oh well])

dont fuck her then ditch her tha not fair is it i would h8 4 tha 2 happen 2 me but i only 13 no way i is havein a kid now god im still younge lol but tha is harsh

dude, don't one night stand her, that's messed up

FUCK HER FUCKING BRAINS OUT NOW!!! CALL HER SAY "HEY BITCH WANNA FUCK" AND JUST FUCK HER TILL SHE BLOWS ALL OVER THE PLACE!!! HELL YEH MAN FUCK HER

Dude remember some MILFs still have douches like a wizard's sleeve and you don't wanna make magic with one of those

that is just plain wrong to have a 1 nigh stand with anyone that has kids