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i am in a relationship, and am having an affair!

what the hell is wrong with me? i am in a mostly happy relationship. i am a cheater. last night, i made out in a laundry room of an apartment complex with a guy i am very attracted to who is quite a bit younger than me. we are very attracted to eachother, and for some reason, i have begun biting him. and he bites me back, just a little bit so it only hurts for a second and it makes me so hot i can't stand it! i know he likes it too, and we really get passionate when we are together. his roommates were home at his place last night, and we were all making small talk. i couldn't even begin to tell you what we talked about, becasue the energy between us was so thick and alive you could slice through it. then we got the hell outta there and went to another apartment building and practically got naked in the laundry room, with the whole world whizzing by the open door in the middle of the night. the crazy thing is, he is not even really my type, not the kind i would normally go for at all. it started by him asking me to lunch at work, and we kept going to lunch. it was supposed to be innocent. then, we hung out outside of work, had a few c*cktails and i just wanted to hug him so badly. i did, and then began kissiing and nibbling on his neck. so i started it! and now i can't stop! i think of him all day, and dream about him at night. i am just so attracted to him i can't stand it. i know i can't see him anymore or i have to end my relationship. i don't want to feel guilt, and i don't want to hurt anyone. i thik i could really fall for this guy. he bit my neck last night, and didn't leave amark but the skin and underneath hurts a little and it gets me hot every time i touch it. he knows i have a boyfriend and of course it bugs him. how can i tell if he really likes me or just wants to get off? why did this biting thing come out of nowhere, and why does it make me so hot? he wants to sleep with me, but i can't. i haven't, but if we keep seeing eachother i know i will and its so unfair of me to do that to my boyfriend.
Do you think it's normal?
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KidIdiot (6429)
2007-03-08 02:35:55
Ooh, you're having an affair? Am I next?
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Shaka_Zulu (3938)
2007-03-08 05:15:41
1stly, strangefag, STFU!

2ndly, if it bugs him that u have a bf it means he wants more than to jst 'getoff' with you. i think you need to sit down & take stock ofhow you feel about him & your bf &....


choose.
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MightOfTheMass (6096)
2007-03-08 08:42:45
Your having an affair, that is not a bog deal and nor is it abnormal.

Do you thing your the first person out there to have an affair ???? There is nothing wrong with you, you simply just want the best of both worlds.

Been there, done it, got the t-shirt, but be warned, the grass is not always greener on the neighbours lawn.
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sisophous (3738)
2007-03-08 12:58:21
Do whatever pleases you, you are not married. It sounds like you don't want a relationship and that is fine. It is unfair to the person you had been seeing to be secretly playing around with others. Not everyone is relationship material, or ready for one. Dating is all about finding someone who is most compatible, you have no obligation to stay with any person long term. So, don't feel any guilt if you choose to move on to someone new.
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Jackeh (6431)
2007-03-08 16:04:02
You should die!
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callmegod (6066)
2007-03-08 21:18:54
Sleezy Slutt
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ninjadude (6349)
2007-03-09 04:16:50
It's not an affair unless your married, in this case, it's cheating. To put it simply, how would you feel if he was doing the same to you behind your back with another female? Think very hard how it would make you feel. And realize, this is how he will most likely feel, unless your not human and have no feelings. There's no reason to cheat on people, if you are even thinking of that route, you should break up with your boyfriend FIRST and don't be a pus*y about it. You need to decide if you want to be with someone BEFORE you ever get with them, this is why it's always good to be friends with someone BEFORE you hook up with them, this way you'll know how they are outside of a relationship and whether or not they're the person you want to be with. It's all very simple. And no, cheating is NOT normal, so don't let anybody tell you different. Humans mate for life, it's in our genes. This is why we "fall in love".
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ninjadude (6349)
2007-03-09 04:21:49
One more thing, this to me, no offense, sounds more like a fling than anything. The excitement of doing something your not supposed to gets you excited, which is probably why you're attracted to somebody you wouldn't normally be attracted to. Ever heard of somebody that was single and couldn't get a date and once they finally get one, they are suddenly desired by others? It's all about the thrill and adrenaline rush you get from the excitement of cheating. Like a drug, doesn't mean your in love, it just means your most likely addicted to the adrenaline your body produces and gives you a euphoric state of mind. But then again I could be wrong...
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Shaka_Zulu (3938)
2007-03-09 07:53:12
U fucking idiot. i'm 25. i live alone. all u saw glancing @ my profile with your beedy lil gay porn peepers was NEW ZEALAND! retard. i'm not even orriginally from NZ. & dun flatter yourself. i would never waste my money on you. i'm surprised some poor sod bothered even buying yu food as a babe. waste of space is what u r imo.
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Nodo_TheRanter (5564)
2007-03-09 15:15:35
W H O R E
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