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I'm so confused
When I was in elementary school I had a male best friend. I'm a female by the way. We developed crushes on each other but never went further than that. He moved away before we started high school and we lost contact. We found each other the summer before our senior year. We hung out everyday this time I thought I was going 2 be lucky and have my first relationship, I was wrong he told me something I accepted but didn't want 2 hear. He said he was bi sexual it kinda hurts but what can I do. My problem is I have feelings for him. He would be perfect for me but I hate that he's bi. We found each other again recently and he wants 2 hang out but we know something sexual will happen but I don't want it 2 but I can't fight temptation. What should I do 2 get over this and just keep my friend as a friend only? It's been 2 years since I seen him and I don't want him 2 see me looking the same psychially I saw him on myspace he's finer than ever. Should I wait a couple of months b4 I see him after I done working on my appearance?
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callmegod (6066)
2007-03-08 21:03:28
Awwww i don't know he might have aids if he's had sex with other guys.
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Moi (588)
2007-03-08 21:32:13
If you hate the fact that he's bi don't get romantically involed with him, just stay friends.
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DrSham (5677)
2007-03-09 07:30:41
Tell him that although he says he is bi-sexual, you are tri-sexual.....you'll try anything sexual.
If he doesn't want to shag you after that he is really a gay and you're better off masterbating.
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Metal_Guy (6580)
2007-03-14 06:24:06
What's wrong with being bi? If he wants to bring other people into it, sure, then I could understand, cos that's just infidelity. But being bi won't make him unfaithful or less attracted to you.

Try and work out what it actually is that you don't like about his bisexuality, then talk it over with him. Better to sort that sort of thing out before a relationship, and if it turns out to be no biggie, then you may have laid the foundations for something very special...

(Oh, and if it's religious, there is nothing in the Bible or any holy book that condemns homosexual or bisexual feelings - some appear to condemn sexual acts between members of the same sex, though I'm not convinced that they actually do - but actual orientation is never condemned. Feel free to check this!)
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bigheart (3359)
2007-07-25 21:04:22
just leave it as friends if you dont like the fact that hes bi. its ashame aswell because you like him loads and then you found out that!!! i bet you feel quite shocked aswell
dont worry just be mates with him and try and move on although its hard to. you should wait a few months before you see him agin because by then you might of got over him atleast a bit
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