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			<description>HeLp Me !!!!!!</description>
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				<title>super - </title>
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				well u know if u really like him then just u know talk to him ask him over your house TALK u can do it u know he might dump u if u don&apos;t say anything to him so speak up				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8307/#comment-107678</link>
				<pubDate>2007-05-16 19:10:12</pubDate>
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				<title>vaver16 - </title>
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				no				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8307/#comment-73632</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-11 22:09:30</pubDate>
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				<title>pooponyou - </title>
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				Try puking all over him. Seemed to work-out in the end for Stan and Wendy (Southpark).				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8307/#comment-73431</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-11 01:20:01</pubDate>
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				<title>smithee - </title>
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				yes i&apos;ve got a suggestion. Take your eyes, gently roll them over until they gaze right at him and STOP!!! Continue to position your eyeball onto the boyfriend and there ya go!

See how easy that is&apos;				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8307/#comment-73418</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-11 01:03:01</pubDate>
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				<title>callmegod - </title>
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				That is really good advice,i didn&apos;t write this post.Yesterday i went out on a date 1st one in 6 yrs, i was so nevous my hands were coverd in sweat and i couldn&apos;t control it.				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8307/#comment-73300</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-10 18:32:28</pubDate>
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				<title>wooops - </title>
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				Ha, I was the exact same way.  I was so infatuated with this guy that I became a complete clutz.  Our first few days, I spilled my drink, dropped food on him, poked him in the eye, and basically came across as a huge nerd.  After awhile I guess I relaxed, and it turned out I was more aware of my nervous nature than he was.  When I mentioned it later, he didn&apos;t even know what I was talking about.				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8307/#comment-73176</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-10 02:28:41</pubDate>
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				<title>saucynoz - </title>
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				fuck him				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8307/#comment-73103</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-09 20:08:06</pubDate>
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				<title>sisophous - </title>
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				There are relaxation techniques people can use if they tend to get very nervous. Slow, deep breathing will slow your pulse rate and relax your body. Take a deep breath from your gut, not raising your shoulders, hold it for a few seconds and exhale very slowly. Do this every now and then, it will help. 

Periodically, sipping water also helps. Carry a small plastic bottle of water with you going about. During the warm weather months, I see college kids today walking everywhere with water bottles. I always felt very nervous before having to give an oral report and so used the above suggestions and they really work.

You may have trouble focusing while nervous, but some nervousness is actually a good thing. It tends to keep us alert and shows attraction. Just too much of it is a bad thing as people tend to feel more comfortable being around others who are relaxed.

Once you get to know another person, the nervousness tends to fade away, so don&apos;t worry about it.				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8307/#comment-73100</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-09 20:00:22</pubDate>
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