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OK, i am a man, who likes sleeping with men, but have this problem with sleeping with men.

my problem is that i cant sleep with complete stangers, it scares the crap out of me the idea of sleeping with someone i dont know. I need to get to know someone before im comfortable enought to be in bed with them. This is probably due to past sexual encounters that have lead to alot of unpleasent bullshit. I have to be sure they have thier head screwed on properly.

All fine, i thought, I'll be cuatious about who i sleep with. Except when i meet someone who i like and i KNOW likes me too, i think i leave it too late before making a move. By the time i feel safe enough to sleep with this person, they have already lost interest in me. This has happend to me so many times and it's really getting to me now. I mean do i give them the impression i'm not interested when i am? or am i do i just become boring?

I'm not lookign for love or a commited relationship, this is jsut about sex. I am a decently good looking guy and i get a decent amount of attention when i go out to gay clubs. I could easily be a complete slut if i had it in me to be like that, but i cant. I dont want to be a slut, I just want to get over this fear that i have. I have no way of knowing how to do it.