If you are engaged you might aswell; I am assuming you are going to move in once you are married anyway. At least this way you can find out more about each other before you actually get married.

Don't move in with him.
It's a mistake.
Unlike materbation.

I can see why your family is concerned, many couples move in together and never get married.

Your family might think differently if the two of you have already made definite plans for the wedding (i.e. already scheduled a date for the wedding: booked a church, and reserved a place for the reception).

kill!

You are twenty one years old and entitled to do as you wish. If you want to move in with your fiance you should do it, your family will get over it and let you live your life. Also, it's best to expierence living together before you marry so you that know what it's going to be like.

domestic violence

I'm sorry, but you know this how? There are studies that show that cohabitation is bad. That being said, you shouldn't trust studies too much, because everyone has their own biases, scientists included, so the results might not be valid.

WHY GO TO A WEDDING WHERE THE 2 OF THEM HAVE EEN FUCKING FOR YEARS! ALL THEY ARE DOING IS LEGALIZING THE ACT THEY HAVE BEEN DOING!

Sell everything you both own and hitchhikie to the Yukon. find an abondoned cabin and have unrestrained sex for 1 year. If you survive the experience, it will define your relationship as worthy. If not, Bhudda will be mad and you will return as a pencil.

Take it easy., Think long and hard about the pros and cons of this move. Then make your choice. Not much else to say. just don't make hasty decisions.

I don't want to move in with my bf because I wouldn't feel secure like I do with my parents. Why don't you just start off by staying with him a few nights. I'm my culture women don't normally move out until they marry. But I don't go by that, I just don't want to feel lost. Plus I save lots of $$, I don'y have to pay for crap at home.

fuck and and if u think im takin bout ur girl think agian cuz im fuckin her hairy ass,go do ur hiv infected mom, dad, and parrot