You lack organisational skills - maybe you could try seeing someone, or possibly finding out about classes that teach better organisation.

Am the same. I now live in a barn with few things. Just hay and staw. Its much easyer to keep tidy.

Don't stress about this. You need to however realize that you are creating an unhygienic environment and can realy get sick. You just need to find the balance between messy and being organized. Please dont become to obsessive about this otherwise you are going to end-up with OCD

you need a woman in your life to clean for you and remind you to pay the bills and etc. i should know, my bf is just like you. ive learned to accept it and help him out :)

Did your mom do everything for you before you moved out? I still live with my parents and most people would say I'm a spoiled brat. I barely clean my bathroom or living room, my mom comes down to do that. I have my own section of the house. I have tons of clothes and most of them are clean but not hung or put away. I've tried for a week to iron and hang my clothes and that didn't last, I only saved like 5 minutes getting to work. Unlike like you, I do pay my bills on time because I'm afraid my credit will be ruined. I'm great at everything else though, most people who know me would say I'm a perfectionist because of the way I carry myself outside my home. They don't know I'm a slob. My work and my appearance is always near perfect. I just can't get myself to clean! If I do clean, it will be back to messy within 2 days. Though I'm messy I always know where to find things when I need them. But I'm often late for things because I'm a procrastinator. And I don't make my bed because I'll just come back and mess it up again anyway.

EW

Organized people are boring. They must have thought about organizing it to start with, which means they have sacrificed some precious thinking time which they could have used thinking about something other than organizing.
Mind you, I have just spent twenty seconds of my precious typing time typing out something this long and boring.
Life sucks.

You just need to try and discipline yourself. Many people can allow themselves to get into this lazy routine if they let themselves. You need to make some small plans everyday, write it down on a note pad, do a list of tasks to achieve everyday like cleaning your room, tidying up your clothes, washing the dishes, washing yourself. Make a rota, do a couple of things one day then some more the next and try to stick to this. Start off by doing a little bit and then a bit more. Build up day by day. You will find it a bit hard at first but it will come easier with practice and once you start dont let it slip. You will find you will get into a routine after a while and find it is much easier to be clean and tidy instead of messy, you can find your belongings much easier then..

im the same but i like bein lazy dont really give a fuck i once lived with a neurotic clean freak historonic bitch omg it was a nightmare

Heh, I think its normal. People do it all the time, but you might want to work on it. Or, meet someone that can introduce a litle order to your life. I admit, I'm lazt too, buuuut once things get to a certain point I can't stand it any more, and clean EVERYTHING up.