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			<description>How to break up with live in fiance quickly</description>
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				<title>namelesstosay - </title>
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				fart in his orange juice!

peace jah bless				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8582/#comment-216386</link>
				<pubDate>2007-12-24 10:00:42</pubDate>
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				<title>SMARTPERSON - </title>
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				http://www.&apos;&apos;&apos;&apos;&apos;.com				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8582/#comment-215132</link>
				<pubDate>2007-12-21 17:46:22</pubDate>
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				<title>cougarbait - </title>
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				hasnt daytime television taught u kids anything&apos; LET MAURY SOLVE UR GOD DAM PROBLEMS
1 800 maury				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8582/#comment-199752</link>
				<pubDate>2007-11-21 23:10:49</pubDate>
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				<title>wwefanfuckinashley - </title>
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				say its over				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8582/#comment-176863</link>
				<pubDate>2007-10-10 00:16:17</pubDate>
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				<title>spamjavelin - </title>
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				just let him catch you getting boned by your long haired redneck neighbour..				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8582/#comment-100880</link>
				<pubDate>2007-05-04 15:25:23</pubDate>
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				<title>spamjavelin - </title>
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				hahahaha ur full of sh1t. get out more.				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8582/#comment-100879</link>
				<pubDate>2007-05-04 15:24:33</pubDate>
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				<title>dukepost - </title>
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				Damn..... good luck to you man.				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8582/#comment-80156</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-29 04:12:35</pubDate>
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				<title>Godson - </title>
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				holy crap!				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8582/#comment-77796</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-23 04:52:16</pubDate>
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				<title>pooponyou - </title>
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				Believe me, my wife and I know all about hardships. We got married at 18 years old after only knowing eachother for 3 months and moved in together immediately when we got together and only knew eachother 2 weeks prior to that. We&apos;ve had our ups and downs, our fights and arguments. And though there were many times when both of us wanted to badly to just &quot;give up&quot; and throw in the towel, we still haven&apos;t. It&apos;s been a little over 2 years now and we&apos;re finally beginning to fall DEEPER in love with eachother than ever before.

We just had a beautiful baby girl. Though many people told us that it was a bad idea because of how much we fight and both of our families attempted to pull us away from one another, we knew better. It takes a great deal of emotional strength on both your parts to make things work. It&apos;s NOT 50/50 it&apos;s truly 100/100 when it comes to relationships. Unless there&apos;s been any cheating or serious things going on, I wouldn&apos;t give up if I were you. Stick it out and prove to yourself and everyone around you just how emotionally strong you both can be. Ask yourself, do you really want to just become another &quot;statistic&quot;&apos; 

Some of the things that we&apos;ve done to improve our relationship that maybe you can apply to your own are, we have decided to move to another area where we&apos;re both happier and there are more things we can do together, such as camping, hiking, fishing, etc... Also, the way you treat eachother could have more to do with situations like a job, or family/friend stress, my suggestion is work your best on reducing these stresses. I worked for Wal-Mart making $16.50 an hr. and was only there for about 7 months. I truly hated my job and it refelected upon my relationships with my wife and others. So, I quit. Though we did not know what we would do for finances and are currently in a financial bind, it has eased a LOT of our stress.

And believe me, we spend almost 100% of our time together besides my work and college. When you&apos;re with somebody that much, of course you&apos;re going to fight, everybody fights. EVERY healthy relationship has fighting in it. You have to make it work, both of you. Don&apos;t just up and leave him without telling him, unless there is a danger to you. It&apos;s not a fair thing to do to him and I&apos;m sure you wouldn&apos;t want anybody doing it to you. If you both truly feel you don&apos;t want to continue, talk about it, don&apos;t just assume.

I&apos;m going to stop blabbering on about this and make one suggestion to you, WORK IT OUT, in the end you will thank yourself for it if you TRULY love one another. I hope this helps and good luck!				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8582/#comment-77192</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-22 00:50:18</pubDate>
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				<title>INeedToGoWeeWee - </title>
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				tell him hes too good for you				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8582/#comment-76697</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-21 06:26:01</pubDate>
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				<title>Didge_Daz - </title>
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				you can allways fake your own death






Peace jah bless				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8582/#comment-76472</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-20 15:16:08</pubDate>
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				<title>justincase858 - </title>
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				use a firepoker				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8582/#comment-76231</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-19 23:06:51</pubDate>
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				<title>heinrich_himler - </title>
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				Call the hitman. www.hitman.us				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8582/#comment-76097</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-19 19:20:38</pubDate>
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				<title>sisophous - </title>
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				Yes, I can suggest a few things. Consider alternative places to live on a temporary basis. Do you have any place else you can go&apos; Can you live with your folks&apos; a relative&apos; a girlfriend&apos; If you do not have an alternative place to live, then it is best to keep quiet about breaking up and wait it out. Also, consider the car as a factor in your situation. That is no small thing, cars are costly to own/lease and maintain.

As far as the lease goes, you should speak to an attorney about this and explain your situation and your intentions. Only an attorney would know the proper step to take and what your options entail. The break up is the right thing to do rather than leading someone on. You also can care a lot for someone but just not be &quot;in love&quot; with them. Most relationships come to an end and do not end up in marriage so feel no guilt. Two years invested is not that long. Cheer up and first step is to visit an attorney about how to go about getting your name off the lease. Good luck.				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8582/#comment-76015</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-19 14:31:12</pubDate>
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				<title>Nodo_TheRanter - </title>
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				Throw all his shit out and change the locks.  Then take the bus.

Or you could just call Daddy.				</description>
				<link>http://isitnormal.com/story/8582/#comment-76013</link>
				<pubDate>2007-03-19 14:28:09</pubDate>
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