am i selfish?
i want my boyfriend to quit smoking. im thinking along the future with him. weve been together for nearly 3 years now and i want to marry him. i want to have kids but i dont want my husband to be a smoker. he quit for me but he started again and he seems to have made his mind up to continue smoking whether i like it or not. am i selfish and crazy for thinking these thoughts? he knows how i feel about it but he tries to be a f**king smartass and ask "are you gonna stop be from driving cause i might die in an accident?" when he clearly knows its not the f**king same. i want him to live a long life with me. i want him to be healthy..because i love him. any girls know a good way to get your boyfriend to quit smoking? thanks.