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I have a friend that is a stripper

I have a friend that is a stripper. She keeps telling everyone that all she wants to do is save enough for college then she is getting out of the business! I went where she works the othe rnight and talked to some of the other gurls! They say all the gurls that come there say that..only about 25% actually do it! So what do you think how should I approach my friend, she is 19, and convince her this is a bad choice?
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (22)
There is nothing wrong with being a stripper if she starts prostituting herself then you may have concerns but its her choice and she probably earns more in a week than you earn in a month she is old enough to make this choice so its up to her
Problem is I think she is into more than just the stripping...I won't elaborate because I don't have the proof
fuck her so she realizes her mistake
It probably would be counter-productive for you to tell her that she's wrong. In my experience, people are more likely to shun your advice and continue doing whatever it was you had a problem with. If you're a good friend, you'll be somewhat supportive, but not too supportive, otherwise she might mooch off of you in the future, if you're a bad friend, let her do her thing and then when it doesn't work out, tell her I told you so bitch.
let her be.
@: roger49
see there in lies part of the problem...roger49. She tellls everyone that she is making all this great money strippig but then wants to go around and accuse all of her family and friends of stealing from her! I think she is using the money for other things and...well her attitude shows it!
You knows I just read what you wrote about her making more ina week than me in a month...Not really! And when you consider the distance she drives to get there and the fact that every time she does some thing wrong or aghainst their policy they fine her she really some times comes home alost at break even after throuwing her body around for hours on end.
Have to admit one thing thou...I wish I had her body, she keeps in good shape, dancing! I have to do what ever I can jsut to maintain!
My point exactly, she's being self-destructive, you can either be there to support her when the dust clears, or you can watch from a distance and laugh your ass off. The decision is yours.
You're a nice caring friend.
Too bad she has to hit rock bottom..and I wonder what will be left to pick up!!
send her 2 my house she can strip 4 me and go 2 college
Kristina, you are one judgmental b*tch. All you do is get into other people's business. Leave her the hell alone; she's 19 and doens't need you acting as her conscience. Also, no one is going to force you to "pick up" anypieces...I think you just enjoy being a Pharisee.
No I guess I am more lie the "Good Samaritan!!!" And besides if you notice some people have coment that I am a ggod friend...DUH!!!
Yes, and their opinion means so much to me. Are you that desperate for affirmation that you need to get it from anonymous strangers on the internet?

Good Samaritans do things for people, give things to people. They don't order them around or judge or condemn them. What exactly are you giving her, besides a load of sh*t?
Sounds like you should go out and earn some money and put yourself through college to learn to spell
Do what all good punters do... stick a nice fat wedge of cash down her G-string, wait for her afterwards and then go fuck her senseless.
I probably have more education than you and probably more degrees!

I wouldn't doubt if you are one of them people that run their mouths on here and sit here all day cutting everyone else dowwn because you don't have a career!
And how did you get that education (which doesn't show through in your writng, btw)? Your friend is trying to get an education too. If you're not ready to step up and help her pay for it, you need to shut your trap and let her live her life on her terms, not yours.

Jesus.
HEY EVERYONE...YOU REALLY NEED TO GO TO..."elephantitis's profile!!! HE IS HOLDING UP A PICTURE OF THE AGE HE ACTS AND HIS i.q.!!!

LMAO
Maybe someday you'll figure out how to turn off that caps lock key. And also how to respond to points people make. But maybe not.
tell her. dh
I think she may be seeing what is happening to her! I am going to try and get her back into counseling this week! Thanks 2 those who have helped!