its complex this way- but is it the best way? http://isitnormal.com/story/8721/ Yeah I agree with NevermindMe because I myself get hurt like that! http://isitnormal.com/story/8721/#comment-135572 2007-07-22 11:11:03 I would give it another shot. Now you are aware of your fear of hurting him, so it causes you to act in his best interests and in turn not hurt him again. If he really loves you, you're hurting him by NOT going out with him. http://isitnormal.com/story/8721/#comment-91972 2007-04-19 15:18:07 If it didnt work the first time its not gonna work a second time simple http://isitnormal.com/story/8721/#comment-78073 2007-03-23 19:30:40 Do what you feel. Hurt is unavoidable in life and he seems to be pretty understanding if he says he loves you after you dumped him. So I say go for it. http://isitnormal.com/story/8721/#comment-78044 2007-03-23 18:34:42