Girl, I know how you feel. But I can't get over my Ex-boyfriend.
Wha tI do is I flirt with alot of other guys, because I know he does. So flirt. Try not to think about him when you ARE flirting.
If you try to get another guy on your mind, which I know is hard, but possible, you can move on really fast.

Get a picture of his face printed out in Hi-res. Glue the picture on your face so you look like him. record his voice and play it as a soundtrack on a portable stereo, stand in his front yard until arrested. He will then insult you so bad that you will develop incredible HATE for him. This should balance your feelings and you will be whole again.

Spread a rumor that he likes you, and then publicly humiliate him when you 'find out' about it. I am not sure how this will help, but it will be funny.

It's hard to get over a crush on your own. That's why you need to go find a new man to take the old man off your mind. I find that's the easiest way to get over a crush. I also find that finding a reason NOT to fancy him and focusing on that can help get rid of a crush but it takes time.

kill yourself

take a deep breath, and let it out with the memories. always helps me.

Yeah or do what you do and go find a fuck buddy thats even better. No strings attached self degrading sex thats what its all about.

@poster

You won't get over this, you're just screwed.

Hope i have helped,
Mimir
ps. I'm a doctor.

I'm a doctor.

ChrisUFC fucks black men.
That's how he got aids.

ps.Mimir2 isn't a doctor. AIDS

Atleast when I do have a sex life its not me and the girl using each other, i hope you get an std sharing this guy.

Im not jealus of anything about you or this dude I could care less, you are just some person I aruge with on the interent and im pretty sure its not going to lead to sex anytime in this century. Just remember you are giving your self up to some dude so he can get his rocks off but not have any strings attached to you, most guys have to take girls out and get them gifts and win their heart over but looks like hes got you set up perfect. And just how do you know hes not sharing anyone else with you?

Its called free love just like the hippies, that is not a friendship its two people using one another. It makes me sick

Keep calling me an idiot for no reason but just because I see things a different way then you. I dont have sex with my friends jojo I would consider it more then a friend ship if I did but you can just go screw anyone in the name of "friends with benefits" and not feel any guilt towards your decisions.

Blah, blah, blah.

Everyone has crushes that make them 'feel funny'. Some people you know, others you can see on television and get all fluttery.

Get over it. It's not special. Move on.

Sounds like you cannot take the heat of being called a slut, sounds like you have a doubt in your mind about your sex life. Trust me no respectable girl screws their best friend in the name of "friends with benifits"

So no respectable guy calls a girl a slut? Yeah ok i think any respectable guy can call a girl what she really is because he is respectable enough to do it. You took the slut deal really personal just admit it. You arnt getting any more sorrys from me because I know what you do when you get them,nothing just keep arguing and saying i said I wanted to fuck you.

Not pathetic, you justify having a fuck buddy has ok becuase you both got tested, i justify it has a slut behavior, a girl who is using pleasure before self respect. Whats wrong with going out and getting a boy friend? Do you think any guy will look at your situation and be able to really trust you when you are with your old fuck buddy? I dont think many guys want to get involved in the situation you and your best friend have cooked up and im sure if you did get a guy you would keep it from him. I mean seriously what do you say to your buddy when you get another guy "hey our fuck buddying is done now i got someone i really care about so we gotta quit?" Just admit it you have put your self in a deep hole and i doubt you are going to have any luck getting out.

Talk about loosing control, you really do have doubts about your self. I only said thats slut activity, I didnt say
"Stargirl you will wait until you are mirried to have sexual relations and you will only do this if you are plaining to have a child"
I stated my opinon on your situation and you went crazy because you cant handle the truth. Still marking me abusive? You should have got a few marks today with how your mouth ran off, looks like your breaking down.

Why is it you can hit me with low blows all day but when I say something personal you take it to the grave with you and tri to make me look like an asshole? I dont know who started this argument but you are just has much at fault has I am for all the mean shit we say to each other.

I did call you a slut and a whore one time I think, im not denying that! Being a slut means you have slut behavior dumbass. So now I got a little dick? You would know huh? Just like you know everything about my 23 years here. One less partner is right and that makes only 3 go find another 23 year old guy that isnt a loser or ugly bastard thats slept with 3 or under, its not that easy to find them so id say im a not a slut. Im not trying to make you look like a bad person! You are the maniac running your crazy mouth cussing me out now its obvious ive got you fired up over it all and I thought you were better then to care what I think about you?

Why dont you stop telling me to fuck off, its making you look silly because you keep talking to me. Well if thats what I said then I take that back and say "I admit I called you a slut" sound better? I mean you are pissed at me right now, I can tell. Its sad I can get you so agry that only makes me believe you have doubts in your self for your situation.

I went through the same brainwashing school system has you did, you know black history month? Made me sick promoting them and not being able to promote whites and what they have dont because its called racism. I dont sit her and call people names like you say, I looked at what you were doing and called you a slut for it. So what? You call me names all the time, you are the one that will not get along with me, ive tried to be nice plenty of times but you let it go to shit to prove you gay points.

Ok again, I dont nor did I ever want to fuck you but I did apologize to you a few times and you didnt respond your probly just came in your pants. Im not going to fuck you stargirl please give that up. I dont care if we have a white month or not what im saying is its brainwashing, almost all the inventions blacks celebrate during their month were not even really theirs so why should kids believe that? No one is screaming "thats not their fucking inventions" becuase they would be a racist but everything else in history has to be questioned to the last t.

poor man

by emailing me hotboy2367@hotmail.com

You don't know if he likes you until you tell him. Don't listen to your negative self talk. He may like you if circumstances are agerelated it could be a factor or if he is in a relstionship etc. things that are out of your control. But what you can contril is your negative self talk. If he says NO, then you know it can't happen, BUT.... WHAT IF HE'S SAYS YESSSS! It would be great! Many people have this problem of fearing this type of situation and I used to tell myself she's so hot and she could have any man, why would she want me? And this is self defeating and will make you miserable. Later with these women, as friends we disscuss things and i found some of them were interested when we met then i fell into a friends catagory and it was not really an option anymore. You have to believe in yourself because no one else will. And if he's not interested remember it's not you it is where he is at in his life. Maybe he has a crush on someone else or he's not interested in women right now because he's been hurt or he's worried about his own problems. It's not about you it is that he may not be ready for anyone and because he is a man maybe he is only interested in girls for looks and sex and not ready to make a connection with a real relationship, if he's afraid of hurting you he may not act. And your crush is mystifying him as look at him in awe it is infatuation and it is not real you are giving him a chance because if he is not all you dreamed it will leave you dissappointed. Give it a chance and relax. Being needy is not attractive to men or women. Love yourself and know you can't anything if you don't ask!

Nobody knows how to get over a crush, girl.