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Is It Normal?
What do you think?
is he wierddd? or am i??
Well I just broke up with my bf after almost 2 years. He wasn't a very good boyfriend and didn't treat me very good... But I loved him to death. He wouldn't wanna spend enough time with me and i never knew where he was half the time. I cried almost every day over him.Anyways ever since i broke up with him this one guy found out and now he's like stalking me. He's been coming around for a week now, and he acts like we're in love. He'll show up at my house before i get home and not even tell me he's coming over. And when i spend time with him its like he's glued onto me every second. He kisses me seriously every 2 seconds on the cheek. I guess I feel smothered. and he constantly hugs me. He already told me he loves me. But geez i've only been talking to him for a week. I don't feel any type of connection with this guy. And its kinda hard to talk to him bc he's shy and i am too. I don't even think he's cute. But I was crazzy about my ex who didn't pay much attention to me.
I know this guy would give me the world and never make me cry and would be there for me. But is it wierd that I dont like him? Or is he kinda too obsessive? idk maybe i'm just not over my ex. I kinda wish i liked this guy bc he would treat me really good, I just don't feel any connection. :( But i don't wanna hurt his feelings and stop talkin to him bc i know he would be crushed..... and he probably wont go away :P ..........
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Comments (13)
bthesailor (6827)
2007-03-24 17:49:12
Get an electric fly swatter and hit him on the nose with it whenever he speaks. tell him that you love him only if he digs a large hole in the schoolyard every day with a slipper.
Insist he eats a tablespoon of instant coffee every 5 minutes. If he does this for 5 weeks he is truly in love.
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ieatapples (2710)
2007-03-24 18:24:19
hahaha at the comment above me.
But NO are you joking he is WAY too obsessive girl! That's rather scarey, you really need to get out of that situation. I'm sure you like it because he pays a ton of attention to you, but there are loads of other guys out there that aren't crazy obsessive about it! Not to mention, you guys don't have a connection with him, which obviously won't work.
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cabinet70 (4440)
2007-03-24 19:09:47
He sounds obsesseve controlling and imature get rid of him now the longer you leave it the harder its gonna be
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Wordyo (6863)
2007-03-24 19:38:51
The reason he is "stalking" you is probably because you haven't told him off yet and are enabling his behavior. I you don't like him, tell him to stop stalking you or you'll call the police, or run away, or whip out your katana and slash him buy the throat till he looks like a hguman pez dispenser and put all of your favorite dress shoes down his mouth so that when you tilt his head back, you can pick a nice pair of shoes for the day.


Also you probably don't like him becaus he is just plain creepy. And the only reason you were infartuated with your past boyfriend is because he totally ignored you. Interesting how that works. And he was probably cheating if he wasn't around. My suggetion is take every picture you have of him, make an internet dating profile pretending to be him on a plus size singles web site and see how many fat chicks fall for him then provide them with his phone number. It will ruin his life. Making you more able to get back to yours :)
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dukepost (6726)
2007-03-24 20:14:03
I agree with the second paragraph of the post above me. Tell the new guy that he is smothering you, and that he needs to stop some of the things he is doing. When you see his reaction, you will know whether to stay with him or not.
You obviously liked your old boyfriend because he treated you badly and ignored you a lot of the time. Therefore, I have come to the conclusion that you are an attention whore and should promptly jump off a cliff.
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xoxoJessica_18 (6887)
2007-03-24 21:11:29
@: dukepost
I should jump off a cliff!!!??? :(
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Knock_It_off (6904)
2007-03-25 02:04:18
Tell him you have herpes, and paint cold sores around your mouth.
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itsnotme2 (7087)
2007-04-01 09:56:04
go to suck it then bite his fucking cock off
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little_white_angel (6940)
2007-04-11 15:22:40
@: itsnotme2
lol. yea u should do that!
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_the_masterer_ (6730)
2007-04-27 22:05:52
BOTH OF YOU ARE WEIRD!!!!!!!!!!!
just accept it
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Guest1111111 (11505)
2007-11-10 08:41:16
Hes weird.Dump him.
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apathy (11575)
2007-11-12 21:07:01
He sounds needy, desperate and obsessed. be careful! tell him you need space and this is coming on too strong, too soon. Do this before he locks you in his basement or room.
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myromeo (15296)
2008-07-23 06:56:25
that's a dam obbsessive!
i no u don't wanna let him down and break up wit him, but tell him how u feel bout u.
tell ur uncomfortable and u need time off.
that's all.
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