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Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!
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are you gay? is that why you were askin this? do you want to kiss guys? because then you can just say you're gay. okay. Thats just the way things are, deal with it.
unless you are a girl who posted this, then its cuz guys ARE gay if they do that stuff.
Do I look gay...duh that is one thing about this site when you post something no one knows who posted it! No it's just when I go to clubs gurls are always getten up and dancing with each other and the guys are suck back at the table to watch...just think it is unfair to them ...K?
If they wanted to dance, they would. I'm sure they don't really want to dance with other guys..
plus i bet they like watching lol
Well you can't tell if girls are gay or not when they dance, but with guys it's really obvious. girls are suppose to be girly (that counts me out) and guys are suppose to be manly. But i know what your getting at, people tend to judge huh..
Why dance with a guy when there are perfectly good girls to dance with?
All women are lesbians:
When we are young, boys and girls suck milk from tits.
For the boy, the mother is of the opposite sex.
For the girl it is from the SAME sex.
The training starts at birth and lingers, to various degrees, later.
everything is just different with guys, so deal with it, im a guy and i like it when girls kiss and dance with eachother, but its gross when guys do it
You have it exactly!!! ANd, I think that if there wasn't this gap...guys would feel more free to express themselves! I mean for instance lets say I go on a date...and the guy I am with is sitten there talking ti his buffies and haven a beer so I take one of their GF's up and dance! That's kewl. But i am sittenthere havena drinknd kicken it with my GF and he wants to dance, well i don't want to right now...but there is no way in hell he is gona take one of the other guys up there!!!! Just to much of double standards!

I am glad youresponded you made a good point, thanx!
I know, girls have no problem dancing together but i guess some guys don't want to be judged or laughed at by their guy friends or other guys who don't even know them.

Your most welcome though! :)
Gurls is slang for GIRLS.....
wait.......wait....back up a second...

Boys CAN'T DANCE WITH EACH OTHER????

Mannn....i'm in a LOT of trouble..........

But seriously, who wrote this?
I'm a boy and i'm PERFECTLY straight and, to be honest, a bunch of usw hoo are all good friends dance together and occiasonally slow dance.....

Kissing, i don't know, but dancing with boys has actually made me mpre firendly with girls. The figure that if they can dance with each other, why can't boys, so by dancing they like me more....YAY!
Hey gurl how ya been and thanx for your reply! I just don't see why we have allthese double standards!

I am starting to see it more at work too!

They act like because gulrs aren't quite as strong as males we wouldn't be able to handle ourselves in a life or death situation!
...Pee while standing?
i would never want to dance with another guy anyways. How many guys, honestly, do you think would wanna dance with each other??? Its just not right, thats why we never do it!
PEOPLE LIKE LESBIANS, i like lesbians, everyone likes lesbians, hot bisexual women too :D

no1 likes gays

kill yourself
See what I am talking about read the comments between ours...double standards? Nah thing some people are just idiots!!!
im a girl, so its weird, but yeah I agree with that, not the dancing part, but the kissing part. I have read on here about girls making out and fingering other girls, but they don't consider themselves gay. it's like WTF
It still just doesn't seem right. You know in other countries guys hug and kiss even. And no one thinks they are gay. So why does it have to be that way in America?

I was clubbing a couple weeks ago and my GF's and i did a little experiment and pissed acouple guys off. Four of girls got up and started daning shortly there after 2 of the guys we were with came on the floor. it was like we werea alll dancing togather, then slowly one by one we girls sat down. leaven them up there. They both came right back to the table....they wouldn't dare be seen togather up there...

Still lmao
the reality is that heterosexual men are very bored with dancing, weather they are aware of it or not.
They are just trying to get the women,
it's a kinda like, they're paying for sex.

And it's not society so much that makes it appear bad, it's built into our genes.
Why the hell should two men dance together?

It's about as pointless as hopping randomly or something amongst people.
@: Mimir2
Oh so in a way you are saying we are all prostituting ourselves when we go out and dance in ront of guys?

I mean I don't feel that way i am out to have a good time and lots of times am even the designated driver. I WANT TO ENJOY THE PARTY NOT BE THE LIFE OF THE PARTY!

I am not saying that there are not girls out there that would do anything to just get a guy to jump in bed with them. Even if it took her to buy drinks for him. But, most I think are desent arespect themselves.

Which takes us back to this story because I think it is a Mocho thing that keeps men from living it up! Maybe if they would let go and get out and danc more there wouldnt be so many fat guys..LOL
Just look at it this way...
some women make them pay cash,
some make them dance,
yet others make them buy a diamond ring.

It's all the same thing.
What is the man paying for?
Think about it.

And the guys are so fat because you are in the states, not because they don't dance.
I'm as hot as they get, and i never dance.
@: Mimir2
Again u make it sound as if woman are all prostitues...THAT"S NOT FAIR!
fair schmair.

Women in general benefit in one way or the other on the opposite sex investing in having sex with them.
That's a statement of high quality generalization and prejudgment.

For every one woman who gets wrongly prejudged there are three who get correctly judged.
Which is quite a good net judgment outcome.
Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time and arenn't gay but if guys do it they are considered gay!Society allows gurls to dance with each other guys can't! Why do we allow gurls...who aren't gay to dance with each other but if guys do it they are considered gay?
SAme with kiss, gurls kiss all the time
guys dance together..... the clown krumpers... rent 'rise' also... you got served
He's right there is a huge double standard when it comes to men. Quite frankly I think all girls have a gay streak. You ever see them sit on each others laps. Picture guys doing it. They wear men's boxers to the store(crossdressing) What would happen to a guy if he went to Target in womens panties. DOUBLE STANDARD! Men shouldn't put up with it. Whenever I see women behaving this way I frown at them. If you look at a dance clip from the 70's and look at a clip from today, big difference. Whatever happened to ladylike?
IT'S NOT A DOUBLE STANDARD! Girls are still considered lesbians, but most girls that dance with each other are hot, so nobody really wants to insult them and call them lesbians or they might stop.
lol . i was wonderinq the same thinq . maybe because girls can be bffs or somethinq . idk but quys do look qay dancinq & kissinq . but qirls...is a different thinq . =]
In some cultures custom dictates that only MEN CAN dance together. In the Greek culture it is traditional for men to dance together. Yeah, OK, lets hear the dimwits with the Greek jokes.

American men are way to hung up on male relationships. You know, the whole John Wayne, Clint Eastwood thing "I can't tell my friend I love him cause' it's not manly" or "I can't ask my friend to dance because everyone will think I'm gay" or "I can't ask Rick to sleep with me cause men just don't do that. I mean it's not cool. Everyone would think I am gay"

Of course the dancing thing with guys only goes for fast dances. The whole slow dance thing with two guys looks more silly than it does with a man and a woman.
@poster

why are you surprised that there is a difference in the perceived norm of behavior between the genders?

men are men.. women are women.

Let's keep it that way.
that because girls have hole instead of long penis...that have no use...expect peeing when standing.
and you know, reproducing... that too.

females are lavished praise upon for being bisexual, males can not hit them while the females can hit the males, they can file sexual harassment charges for ridiculous false bullshit, they can get through their entire life by doing nothing but looking good, and they actually complain about equal pay and rights?

there is one solution, my fellow men must rise up and wipe out 1/2 of the female population. the rest will be made into servants and breeders.
Its cuz most males look at women as sex objects therefore they feel that its socially exceptable for women to do that,and because we like it the girls do it to get attention...
I think it be hot if guys danced with each other. yall need to stop being such chickens
wish you would dance with your snatch on my face!