threesome issues.. http://isitnormal.com/story/8773/ I know a woman who had a husband that wanted her to do another man while he watched. She gave into the idea. He really like it. He wanted her to do it again with another man and then a third. She was liking te new advanture. The other men were better lovers than her husband. So, one day she suggested that she do this 4th man. He became upset. It was OK when it was his pleasure but when it became her pleasure, it was a totally different matter. Be open and be careful. http://isitnormal.com/story/8773/#comment-87810 2007-04-13 12:00:58 just masturbate http://isitnormal.com/story/8773/#comment-85401 2007-04-09 03:12:05 The problem is not the threesome but your own insecurity. Do you think he has been with you or six years because he is too lazy to look around or, because he is too blind to notice your weight' To get into group sex one needs a mature outlook on relationships, absolute confidence (meaning knowing that if he leaves you is his loss) and, a basic understanding of non-monogamous relations. People who participate in threesome usually find cheating un-acceptable yet, want variety and excitement. Is your boyfriend committed to you or just committed to his own hormones' And how about you' How do you intend to take care of your "bi" tendencies' Are you planning to bring him into that part of you or, are you planning to keep that all for yourself' Are you planning to have sex with another woman just not in front of him' That may be the reason he is mad. He knows your solution to the problem is to cheat. http://isitnormal.com/story/8773/#comment-79144 2007-03-26 19:58:59 If you dont feel 100% ready for this dont do it or your relationship will be ruined. If you were able to do it you would have done on the night. http://isitnormal.com/story/8773/#comment-78864 2007-03-25 19:52:19 ^ ...not think of it... http://isitnormal.com/story/8773/#comment-78838 2007-03-25 18:23:29 I don't know what you should do, but I do know that having a threesome rarely works out because it is too hard to see your boyfriend with another woman and no think of it all the time. http://isitnormal.com/story/8773/#comment-78837 2007-03-25 18:23:02 I thought someone would have commented by now. I'm no help - my mind is a blank. You just have to do what you are comfortable with - don't compromise. http://isitnormal.com/story/8773/#comment-78777 2007-03-25 14:11:20