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y can't i reach orgasm
I've been sexually active for quite a few years now, 15 to be exact and i have never been able to reach orgasm. Is that normal? Its been the same guy and he does everything well, he rubs be, bies me, and he hits deep if you get my drift. And it feels great, but i never reach orgasm. Like the other day, we did the normal date stuff, dinner, movie, candles, etc... and we had sex. He orgasmed 7 times in two hours and i didnt even once. i feel like im letting him down. I guess what im really asking is is it normal to not reach orgasm if you never have before, and what can i do to reach it?
(keep in mind we have tryed everything from, dildos, vibraters, oils, porn, oral, anal, dressing up, finger f**king, everything!)
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Wordyo (6863)
2007-03-27 02:08:36
Err um most females don't even reach orgasm through penile insertion in fact.

I would not condone this for 15 yr olds but whatever...

Oral stimulation *using the tongue* seems to wrok for more women.

And remember... CONDOM EVERYTIME!!!! Even if you are on the pill.
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dukepost (6726)
2007-03-27 02:51:39
Person above me either does not know how to fuck a woman or is a woman whose man does not know how to fuck her. I would suggest that you get a man who knows how to please a woman.
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gimpy (6945)
2007-03-27 05:27:15
@: Wordyo
Shes not 15yo twat head, she has been fucking for 15 years. As for the problem i would suggest he go down on you, its fail safe.
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brothershamass (380)
2007-03-27 05:39:17
This bloke came 7 times in 120 minutes. This story is either bullshit or he is faking his spunkshots.
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cabinet70 (4440)
2007-03-27 08:23:37
you need a good licking and a vibrater
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dragon121506 (6947)
2007-03-27 11:36:59
lol, I'm 22, my computer has sticky keys (cat soda=not good for computers), what i ment to say was i have been fucking this guy since I was 15.
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deric (6714)
2007-03-27 12:08:25
I'm glad that you cleared up the age thing. If you can't have an orgasm then it could be a medical issue. Did you try any of the male drugs - like Viagra - I have heard that it works for women too. And I can always get my girlfriend to orgasm by giving her oral. It can take time, but when she comes she cums. Have him talk dirty to you - or you to him - we both think that it gets us hotter. Good luck - wish I could help.
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Dakota583 (6394)
2007-04-01 18:31:22
im 20 and had this problem for the first year or so i was having sex. since u haven't been able get off everytime have sex u are concentrating on that. just relax and enjoy. what finally worked for me was i bought some porn and a crazy vibrator and just went at it and didnt stop till i got off. clit stimulation is what works best for most women. i can almost just hold it on my clit or move the vibrator from side to side or up and down and that gets me off. another thing u might try with ure guy is when u are having sex get on top and put it all the way in you and just grind on him HARD. it works great for me. good luck hope u get to cum soon!
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little_white_angel (6940)
2007-04-11 01:00:24
somethings wrong
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